You know he can't make you do anything you don't want to do. So why did you get on the plane?

Well, at least he gave you a reason. You gotta give him that!

Divorce. Sue him for child support and alimony.

It sucks for you and I’m sorry, but I’m also *super* curious about his side of the story now.

maybe it's long past this, but constructive conversation goes a very long way. and maybe finding who you truly are without them is what you need. I've been sent back home from my now ex husband, and it was the best revalation of my 25 years of life so far. because I was so stuck on a skewed vision of "us", I didn't even have me in the picture anymore, just what was best for him and I, never myself only. and that hurt so badly because I had to remind myself who I am and where I came from. it was difficult, however I would never have moved back in with him to "figure things out". I knew I was (am) a better me without him now that he wasn't blinding me from seeing it too