Heartfelt

By Anonymous - 01/05/2022 15:01 - United States - Lake Stevens

Today, my husband put myself and our 3 year-old on a plane back to the other side of the US, because he “just can’t” with us anymore. FML
I agree, your life sucks 949
You deserved it 181

Same thing different taste

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wrenavery90 12

You know he can't make you do anything you don't want to do. So why did you get on the plane?

Divorce. Sue him for child support and alimony.

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wrenavery90 12

You know he can't make you do anything you don't want to do. So why did you get on the plane?

arioch_fml 20

Probably so they could go back to live with OP's family til she for back on her own feet. Bright side he's not a complete monster. Some people would kick them out and leave them struggling, or he would have needed to take the kid, which by the sounds of it he really didn't want to.

I liked this, and now I remember why I don't agree. because I (and I hope OP agrees) would much rather be where I am completely loved, rather than where I am not wanted or loved properly anymore

Well, at least he gave you a reason. You gotta give him that!

And at least he put them on a plane instead of just "out" .....

Divorce. Sue him for child support and alimony.

It sucks for you and I’m sorry, but I’m also *super* curious about his side of the story now.

maybe it's long past this, but constructive conversation goes a very long way. and maybe finding who you truly are without them is what you need. I've been sent back home from my now ex husband, and it was the best revalation of my 25 years of life so far. because I was so stuck on a skewed vision of "us", I didn't even have me in the picture anymore, just what was best for him and I, never myself only. and that hurt so badly because I had to remind myself who I am and where I came from. it was difficult, however I would never have moved back in with him to "figure things out". I knew I was (am) a better me without him now that he wasn't blinding me from seeing it too