By Anonymous - 01/03/2015 19:03 - United States - Springfield
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Hopefully once the baby is born op will love the niece/nephew so much that she can only see the child for who they are & not as a reminder of the past. Op, I know this must be incredibly painful right now, but try to put that behind you once the baby is born. As an aunt I can say that having a niece/nephew is one of the best things that can ever happen to you! I'd hate to see you miss out on such a wonderful thing and the joy that child can bring you. You can be mad at the sister, but don't blame the child or argue with your sister in her presence. It's not her fault her parents made such a horrible mistake. I hope you can have an awesome relationship with your niece or nephew as there's really nothing better than being an aunt! Good luck op!
60; as inspiring and mature as your comment is I have to say we don't have enough information. OP could very well be deeply in love with her boyfriend, been with him for years and was wanting to marry him. Just as easily as they could have been together a few weeks or months. The whole point is that if OP was deeply emotionally invested, this is probably going to ruin her relationship with her sister. She'll have to choose between disowning her sister or patching her relationship with her sister and ex and loving her niece/nephew. Very very sad.
How can a sister do this to her sister? I do not understand. Fuck your boyfriend, he is a jerk. But, your sister? She did not have to do this. I am really sorry about this, OP. You probably need to get out of all this, and go out, have some refreshment. You do not deserve this! I would whoop their asses if I was in your place!
Toss their asses back in the closet and lock it.
That gonna suck... Your own niece/nephew being a constant reminder that your boyfriend cheated on you and your sister betrayed you... Sorry op. You'll find someone better anyways.