i think you are being a bit over-judgmental in that statement. Some people can keep their legs apart and never get pregnant by using something called "condom" , or even some women take pills :P Besides is the bible teach us anything is that abstinence is only 99% effective, right virgin mary?

Waiting for marriage IS bullshit. The thought of no sex before marriage is for the brainwashed, because it's outdated religious CRAP.

I don't think waiting for marriage is bullshit. But neither is not waiting until marriage. It's a ******* preference, so people need to chill out and stop feeling so personally offended because someone else has a different opinion.

Oh, I'm not saying that having sex before marriage is terrible, honestly if done responsibly (and I'm not saying the OP didn't use a condom either, they may well have), I really don't have a problem with it. However, she's still 100% responsible (or rather, irresponsible) for the fact that she FAILED her first year of college. And the decision to have sex is up to the couple, and I don't mean to pry into other peoples' business. I'm just saying that some people choose to wait until they're married. It doesn't make the decision "bullshit" as #33 said.

#76 It's not "outdated religious crap" either. Though some people do wait for religious reasons, I'm a DEIST (if you don't know what that means, look it up) and I'm still waiting. It's called a personal decision! Last time I checked, that was the opposite of being brainwashed.

I hope you and your spouse have horrible sexual chemistry.

105, I LOVE your maturity! How dare 70 have a differant opinion!

Way to be a hypocrite midwestjerk. Calling the OP a "brain-dead *****" and then saying waiting for sex is BS. And you didn't think anyone would notice... Anyway, I hope your life is filled with fun, frivolity, and orgasms. Just don't get into too much trouble, alright?

@79- Kudos. Waiting for marriage isn't (always) religious crap and not waiting for marriage isn't (always) a stupid-as-hell thing to do. They're both PERSONAL PREFERENCES. I can't speak from the other side, but I've always chosen to wait for marriage. One because I'm kinda sentimental that way, but the other because a friend of mine got HIV from someone who thought he was clean, but had a tendency to drink too much at parties (and then hook up afterwards). So, midwestjerk, why don't you try telling her that waiting for marriage is just "religious crap?"

Ah, you people make me giggle. Enjoy your little lives.

Don't feed the troll,guys.

noone was lookin for an essay.

@Lackadaisy_baby: I read your post with great interest. You're right, we don't know anything about this girl except she failed courses in her first year of college and she got knocked up around the time grades were posted. So, let's give the girl a break here and stop suggesting she is some drunken frat ***** and face the fact that maybe, just maybe, she studied her little heart out and got knocked up by her regular boyfriend. OP, the only difference between the two options is that the former suggests you may be fun (when not failing and getting knocked up) while the latter suggests that you are just really dumb! I want to believe you are fun... And, OP, don't listen to these people and their opinions about what is best for you and your baby - it's none of our business and you will make the best decision for both of you.

Thomas Edison was homeschooled, you know.

thomas edison also lived during a very different time period than us...

Yes, but I'm assuming they had brains back then, right? And that we have brains too, right? I'm just saying that alot of homeschoolers are actually pretty smart. I'm not saying I haven't met the oddball homeschooler or the dimwit homeschooler, but isn't that like saying private schoolers are snooty bastards and public schoolers are dumbass rebels?