Totally agree, OP, you can do much better. She sounds unsympathetic. Sorry for your loss. :(

When my brother died it had the opposite affect. people are weird.

yikes. you were happy when your brother died?

I think he might mean his girlfriend liked his more emotional side. At least I sure hope so.

108 no I wasnt happy when my brother died but it strengthened the relationships I already had. I probably could have been clearer about that.

I agree completely. After 5 years of relationship, she can't be there for OP for 2 weeks?? That's just terrible and only an extremely selfish person would be like that.

Bitch is putting it nicely, more along the lines of FUCKING BITCH!!! 5yrs of being together and she so selfishly broke up with you because you are Grieving your Brother!!?!? What a piece of shit. I am so sorry for your loss OP. I know what you are going through. My sister just passed this February and it is a every day struggle. Take all the time you need to grieve him, there is absolutely no time frame on the amount of time one should grieve.

When did OP ever say they were happy when their brother died? That's usually not a happy occasion..

I think that ship has sailed

what..?

"Allow" is used as a way of saying "Go away" or "get rid of", actually it doesn't have an easy description. People will say "allow doing exercise" because they don't want to do it. It's a British thing that appeared a few years ago and didn't really catch on with many people. So, #8 is pretty much just saying "fuck that bitch, you're better off without her" ^^

Well I'm British and I've never heard that expression before.

#106 is correct

#107 being British doesn't count if you've been living under a rock.

Why am I getting so many down votes lol

If she has been with OP for five years and if she was completely invested, then she would be mourning right along with him. I'd think by then that OP's family would feel like family to her. So obviously she wasn't that invested in the relationship, that is incredibly sad.