By emopoe - 06/09/2011 15:11 - United States
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OP, if you want to keep the relationship together, which in my opinion you shouldn't... You guys should go to the gym together or start a workout regimen together, so he can be happy with you getting fit, and you can be happy with him getting fit. It also would be a good relationship builder, because most couples I see at the gym never fight because they're too self-absorbed in working out to be angry at others.
Nothing wrong with a dude wanting his girl to be fit. In my opinion if I take the time to make my self look presentable to my lady she should too. Obviously he has some feelings for her aside from the shallowness if he laid it out up front with her instead of cheating. Always the haters in these comments.
Well, it wasn't a very tactful way of saying it, but I do in some ways agree with him. if the physical attraction is being lost, you cannot continue to be romantic towards a person. Why? Biology. It sucks, but the human brain, or, more accurately, the male human brain, cannot feel the same biological drive to make babies without attraction. He at least wants to stay with her, she's upset, I hope they work it out.
I am completely behind the ops BF on this one. I know this girl that has gained weight then broke up and lost it, then repeated that. Some girls just let themselves go once in a relationship. Guys will stay with you like he said, because the love remains but it is true it is harder to start a relationship when obese. Being fat is not normal people, get that through your heads, it not healthy nor does it look good. Don't let the media tell you being fat is ok and bein skinny is necessary. Stay healthy and fit.
Keyman, you like boobies? Man-crush ruined. :'( There are far too many people that stay in bad relationships out of fear of being alone or not being able to find someone else. My own sister is in an abusive relationship, which I've tried everything in my power to stop, because she doesn't want to be alone and she doesn't want her daughter to grow up without a father. I've told her it's far more damaging to stay. I realise this is extreme compared to this FML but if it's not a healthy relationship you really should get out of it.
I totally agree man. Ppl should stop being hypocritical n be real. Nobody (at least no man or woman I've ever met) wants to date a fat girl ! Fat is unattractive n unhealthy. So yeah get to the gym or exercise. Even in Africa where fat is sometimes thought of as a good thing, most ppl don't like it in their partner n go after others because of it.
My boyfriend says the same but I'm 8 months pregnant. He knows I'll lose it once this is all over & he agrees with me that I'm fat right now but still loves me. Although, if I was big (& my idea of bigger is 135+ pounds on a 5'2 girl) before I got pregnant he wouldn't have dated me & I completely understand. Just how stuff works. My boyfriend wouldn't be as uncouth as OPs boyfriend though. :/
Well at least you know he loves you :/
Go on a diet