Today, my boyfriend and I were having sex, when I got a sudden agonising cramp in my foot. I cried out in pain, but he didn't stop. If anything, my cries of pain seemed to spur him on. FML
I don't think OP was bawling because of a foot cramp so I don't see how you'd think crying turned him on. I can understand the boyfriends motivation because he probably thought he was doing a good job. Moans of pleasure and pain go hand in hand most of the time. I know when I stub my toe I usually yell something like, "You dirty fucking whore", which is the same exact thing I say after I finish during sex.
25, sometimes people like the feeling of pain. I remember when I used to have braces I used to love when I went to get them tightened because the pain was so satisfying. I still crave that feeling of pain sometimes.
Why is everyone saying this? Maybe OP's boyfriend does get turned on by people screaming in pain. I know I sure as hell do. Nothing sets the mood like other people suffering in pain and agony.
Most decent people would ask if their partner was okay as well. Sometimes when my girlfriend and I have sex she'll ask if she thinks a sound I made could be pain.
In my opinion, stopping to ask 'are you okay?' in the middle of sex would be a huge turnoff. If your partner doesn't have enough sense to say 'stop' or 'ow' or anything other than a moan when something like that happens, there's an issue.
When you fire a gun, don't aim it towards you. And even if you do, try not to pull the trigger. Unless you're trying to kill your self. If that's the case, mission accomplished.