By Anonymous - 05/12/2013 19:10 - United Kingdom - Washington

Today, my boyfriend and I were having sex, when I got a sudden agonising cramp in my foot. I cried out in pain, but he didn't stop. If anything, my cries of pain seemed to spur him on. FML
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Same thing different taste

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I bet he didn't think those were crys of pain

He maybe couldn't tell the difference between cries of pain and pleasure? Guys like a bit of noise...


Dallasluver19 14

It might be a misunderstanding from her boyfriends point of view. Distressed confused with pleasure I guess.

He probably thought she was crying out in pleasure, not pain. Some girls could scream like they're in pain when it's really pleasure, so it would fit

CallMeMcFeelii 13

I don't think OP was bawling because of a foot cramp so I don't see how you'd think crying turned him on. I can understand the boyfriends motivation because he probably thought he was doing a good job. Moans of pleasure and pain go hand in hand most of the time. I know when I stub my toe I usually yell something like, "You dirty ******* *****", which is the same exact thing I say after I finish during sex.

Once again McFeeli you've made me laugh out loud. I love you lol.

how cute, I sense a bromance blossoming.

why not just tell him to stop?!? obv he thought they were pleasure cries!! I dont get girls! y would u carry on!?

that's a real fetish that some people actually have, you know.

CelticSkye 13

Oh dear...that's only a good thing if you want it to be a good thing. It's time to have a chat with your bf!

How could being in pain be a good thing? Confused as ****, don worry I'm in pain but it's a good thing - said no one ever...

I was about to suggest that you google "S&M" but perhaps that's not such a good idea...

25, sometimes people like the feeling of pain. I remember when I used to have braces I used to love when I went to get them tightened because the pain was so satisfying. I still crave that feeling of pain sometimes.

25 - Its not that uncommon for a girl to cry out during sex...

I bet he didn't think those were crys of pain

iglesia 11

That was what I was thinking... He probably didn't mean to be inconsiderate, and maybe thought OP was enjoying it

DrownedMyFish 18

Why is everyone saying this? Maybe OP's boyfriend does get turned on by people screaming in pain. I know I sure as hell do. Nothing sets the mood like other people suffering in pain and agony.

Are into what, making a girl climax? I think all guys should be...

I'm sorry I don't do political correctness.

Cries* I'm sorry but that really bugged me. Not trying to be rude.

He maybe couldn't tell the difference between cries of pain and pleasure? Guys like a bit of noise...

What does this have to do with their mother? Go to the corner and think about what you've done wrong.

23- I'll save the psychology lesson and go to the corner..

No now I want to know how this equals mommy issues. spill your psychology

When it's Freud, there's always mommy issues! They must have been reading lately.

13 - Yes if they mistook the cries of pain for cries of pleasure, which I'd bet was the case.

I'm really not too sure about you guys, but pleasure cries are distinctly different than those of pain to me.

Most decent people would ask if their partner was okay as well. Sometimes when my girlfriend and I have sex she'll ask if she thinks a sound I made could be pain.

In my opinion, stopping to ask 'are you okay?' in the middle of sex would be a huge turnoff. If your partner doesn't have enough sense to say 'stop' or 'ow' or anything other than a moan when something like that happens, there's an issue.

That's ****** up, maybe your cries sounded like the fake-moaning in ****? Especially Asian ****.

"I don't always compare my sex life to ****, but when I do, I focus on the fake moans"

When you fire a gun, don't aim it towards you. And even if you do, try not to pull the trigger. Unless you're trying to kill your self. If that's the case, mission accomplished.

usually a cry out or a wince is a good thing for a guy, so I can see how he took that as a good sign and went even harder