By notnicefools - 29/05/2012 02:51 - United States - San Diego
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Definitely horrible. I have a hard time wrapping my head around the insensitivity and stupidity of some people around my age. I barely feel comfortable talking at a grave site in fear of disrupting people around me, let alone smoking weed and discussing conspiracy theories. FYL, OP. I hope next time you try to honor your late husband, you get to do so in peace.
Haha I'm sorry you got thumbed down for being sarcastic. I thought it was funny. And OP, For all anyone knows they could've been at a good friend or family members grave that they used to have stoned conversations with. Usually everyone at a cemetery has a story whether it's obvious or not. Everyone has a different way of dealing with loss. Or they could just be asholes.
Cemetery's are a public place. Everyone who has lost someone has a right to be there. If my brother asked me to try and not be sad when he died and maybe even go smoke a blunt with him at his grave, I'll make damn sure that's what I'm gonna do. I didn't say it wasn't disrespectful. I just said everyone has their own story.
I recognize they are a public place, and that IF those teenagers were there to mourn, they absolutely have a right to be there. However if I lost somebody and knew how badly that hurt, and felt the importance of honoring their life, I wouldn't want to disturb the people around me who were there trying to do the same thing. I wouldn't look down on someone smoking at a friend or family member's grave site if their loved one asked them to. I look down on it when it becomes a disturbance for other people who are trying to grieve.
change how gravity works for them and knock them to the ground.
Instead, you accidentally got high from second hand, and began discussing your hatred of Twilight and teenagers with him.
You should be glad you've heard this information! Now you can try and stop this government. Although it sucks that you couldn't mourn for your husband and I'm sorry for your loss.