By fuck people - 02/08/2013 20:58 - Canada - Toronto
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After going to too many funerals for my friends already, I understand trying laugh through the pain, so to speak. But if some mother fucker kept saying "that's what she said" during one my friends funerals I'd clock that piece of shit right in his fucking mouth. Then look up in the sky and say "you're welcome". That's way too disrespectful no matter how lighthearted the funeral may be, you don't pull that shit.
My little brother came with us to a funeral, and being the little kid that he was, kept trying to joke around since everyone else was "so gloomy". When they open the casket for viewing, he leaned over and whispered loudly to me "I see dead people". Point is, some people don't grasp/deal with death and empathy the way the rest of us might; such as young children.
Lol at the people down voting me. He would've said something to help the op after his initial grammar correction to #18. His comment wasn't insightful, just a smart ass correction and he has "halla, halla" in his profile. And doesn't spell "you" completely in his profile. Lmao. As for me, I commented originally on the 2nd page, FYI.
That's really sad and disrespectful. Unless he was the type of guy who would rather people joke around than be sad
I'm glad I'm not the only one that see it that way. I really don't like saddness (it's a sucky feeling!), so I would want my friends and family to still laugh and smile at my memory instead of moping around being sad! I like to think that's how OP's friend was n_n
Ya im sorry op. Ive lost someone recent and if I had people acting like that at the funeral..I'd smart off something. Some people want their funerals to be a more happier event..but then again moarning will always take place. .it's an important part of someone passing away. I'm truly sorry op...I hope you find comfort.
I just hope my funeral is like that! I'm that type of guy though.
Funerals are emotional and sad. Talking about it can be hard and very crappy... however, I didn't realize people would be so upset in this FML after reading about OP's misfortune to comment jab at other people within the comments because of their original comments. This site really does show some love and compassion for others in their darkest moments. :P I love you all!
I would've just walked out if I were you. People can be so disrespectful