I might have stuck to the skin disease story.

that must have “sucked” the life out you

My concern is that you're young enough to still have your mother in the room with you...
Hopefully you are being safe.

if you're old enough to have a boyfriend who gives you hickeys then you're old enough to not have your mommy in with you when you see the dr. ydi

how does a regular checkup involve showing your inner thighs, if not more? have i been doing it wrong?

For girls after a certain age, a routine checkup includes a pelvic exam annually and Pap smear every 3 years

Some people skip using OBGYNs and just do all of that at their routine checkup. But I never had my mom in the room for the exam part. And being sexually scribe usually shows up on the exam, even if not discussed. Just didn’t need to leave a literal trail of evidence.

This ones old :(

This doesn’t make much sense unless you’re going for a gyno appt and that’s why they checked your legs and lowers. Girl be safe about what you’re doing if you’re that young

Guessing she’s still a teenager since her parent still accompanying her.

OP what the heck is wrong with you? Have some dignity and have the decency to avoid making your doctor uncomfortable. When you have a pelvic exam booked, have the area fit to be seen, just like you wouldn't leave dirty socks lying on your floor when expecting houseguests. Be freshly showered, and no weird surprises like those hickies. If something comes up unavoidably, like the BF made a hickey before you could stop him, or you forgot about the appointment & let him (or something else was going on like early period), you could just rebook for another time.