Today, I was looking at dating profiles with my single friend, trying to find a guy for her, and we found my husband's profile. FML
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Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, a friend showed me my husband's online dating profile, which includes photos of him with our kids. FML
Today, I was helping my friend create an online dating profile. When she got her search results, her #1 match was a blonde guy only 10 miles from her. His description: genuine, laid back, and ready for fun. He left off something kind of important. He's already married. To me. FML
Today, I decided to check out a dating site, when I stumbled across my ex wife's profile. She'd had it for four out of the five years of our marriage. And no, it didn't rate us as a good match. FML
Today, I found out the guy I was seeing was married, with a kid, when his wife sent me a friend request on Facebook. FML
Today, I found my boyfriend's Facebook page. I also found his wife's. FML
Today, out of pure boredom, I created a Twitter account. Looking for pages to follow, I found out that my long-distance boyfriend is actually someone's husband. A month ago he posted a picture of himself and "The love of his life", wishing her a happy 30th birthday. FML
Today, I found out my boyfriend was on a dating website. He came up as an ideal match for my sister. FML
Today, I removed all my online dating profiles. Apparently my ex-husband finds stalking me online preferable to spending time with his new girlfriend. FML
Today, I signed up for an online dating service, a couple of days after my divorce. I got my first batch of matches, and number one was a smiling picture of the woman who had just divorced my ass after 20+ years together. Her profile shows she has to have been active there for months. FML
Today, I ran into an old high school friend while out with my husband. When she inquired who I was married to, I pointed to my husband, who was looking at shirts. She laughed and said, "No really?", insinuating that I couldn't get anyone that good looking. FML
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Top comments
lexos 16
Set them up on a date and confront your husband with it
lex1459 38
Sounds like he'll be able to put that profile to use sooner rather than later. Get out OP, you deserve so much better!
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Comments (66)
RedDevilOut 7
Sorry OP. I know the pain you felt at that moment" and beyond. This is how I found out that my long time girlfriend, that I was very much in love with, was cheating. My brother found her profile on Mach.com. I made a fake profile and msg'd her, just to be sure. Her profile was very active. Thats all I needed. Again, sorry for your pain. YLS.
epicgamer 18
Sorry to hear about that man. However, don't just assume that he was cheating, it might have been inactive, a scam account with photos found online, a prank by a sibling/friend etc.
zaidthunder1 27
One for Two?
acmariner99 25
Maybe he never turned it off? Unless you suspect it's a new development
moodyreallyrocks 27
Confront your husband OP, before you start judging, just to be safe..
NYGiants1925 22
Hopefully he just forgot to get rid of it. You need to have a serious convo about that tho.
Le_ponderer 14
*Gasps* There are no words... Actually, there are a few; Scum, Dirtbag, Low down scheming shitbag. What are you gonna do OP?
trucker2 33
Not thrown anyone under the bus here... Profile could be old, and never deleted... Send msg see if you get a response... And go from there....
lilithfury 23
Screen shot, and also arrange a set up with a friend to bust him. Film it, and use in divorce proceedings.
EbyKat 16
In addition to the "it might be a bot/old account" it is not uncommon for married people to set up dating accounts and get a charge from the flirting but never actually do anything. The internet equivalent of flirting in a bar after work before coming home. Def time to have a talk with your husband though.
DanielleinDC 34
There's a big difference between flirting in a bar and setting up an account so you can flirt online. The first is more passive and unintentional; the second is very intentional.
Earl_KarmasBitch 36
I agree it's a lot more intentional but if her husband never intended to go beyond harmless (at least to his point of view) flirting then it's not the same as if he were actually using the site to find women to sleep with. If that's what's going on OP needs to have a chat with him and tell him to stop. But it doesn't necessarily mean she has to end things with him.
tounces7 28
I still have my profile on a dating site....because I don't think they ever actually delete it, even 10 years later. Do we know this is a RECENTLY made profile?
Mynxie 26
You can delete your own profile. Not a valid excuse. I was on several dating sites and each allow you to delete your profile.
swaddison 11
#36, sometimes you just forget. My tinder profile is still up but I deleted the app. Deleting the app doesn't delete the profile. Sometimes people actually just don't think to go deactivate. If they've met in the past 5 years, it's fair to say maybe (if this is just an old account) he deleted the app or just stopped checking the website.
OrganicSistah 17
My husband and I met on a dating site and we both deleted our profiles once we decided we were serious about each other.
Earl_KarmasBitch 36
Yeah but people often forget to do that. And quite a few people would probably be honestly surprised to lean that deleting the app doesn't delete the profile.