By Anna - 02/07/2016 21:08 - United States - Lake City
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Sounds like he'll be able to put that profile to use sooner rather than later. Get out OP, you deserve so much better!
Before you jump straight to the obvious conclusion, consider that many profiles on dating sites are set up by scammers using stolen photos. You need to check this out. Don't say anything you can't unsay till you're sure it's really him. Many scammers are from foreign countries and their English is a little 'off'. Maybe set up a fake profile and send a message. See what he says. If he arranges a meeting, go - and confront him. But have a friend nearby in case it goes pear-shaped, or someone other than him turns up.
Be wary, but don't jump to conclusions. It's possible that it's a scammer, his sibling/"friend" trying to play a prank on him, etc. If there has been no recent activity and/or the account is very old, it might be even an account he made before you got together, and he has entirely forgotten about.
excuses, excuses.. There are much better ways to meet and find a friend. Yah ever heard of actually going outside? Go volunteer, attend a Tea with Strangers meetup, connect with old friends you haven't seen in a while... so many possibilities, if you only look around.