By bluediva24 - 26/01/2011 00:54
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well.. just because he just found out hes Italian, doesn't mean he's gone crave Italian! lmao tho.. still, u took the time out to cook for him, he should appreciate any meal u cook for him.. Ur a sweetheart
You know, I have to agree. Why would he suddenly want Italiab food after finding out he's Italian? OP deserves it a little for making such assumption, but he should be happy you cook for him at all. Still.. That was a big assumption, OP. Stuff like this works better when you make plans for it. Surprises are nice, but some stuff is good to ask about. Not like being Italian is reason to celebrate.
Assumptions? My guess is that OP's boyfriend already had eaten Italian food in his lifetime - who, in this culture, has not? - and that OP just wanted to cook an Italian meal as a sweet gesture. It's rude of the boyfriend to turn up his nose, whilst seeing and therefore knowing that his girlfriend has spend lots of effort and preparation in it. He should be damn happy that his girlfriend is willing to do that for him. There is always another day for Chinese.
34- exactly. The whole business about it being Italian is irrelevant. The fact that OP spent time and effort making an elaborate meal is very sweet and should be appreciated. His response makes me think he should be put down. He's an asshole. But since, fmls only tell part of story, it is possible that he was just making a quick joke. As long as he told her right after. And if so, then obviously this is not an fml.