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By  ThatOneAdamKid24  |  7

hardly an fml sorry. you have a great boyfriend, sex is only a by product of a relationship. it shouldn't be that important. plus it can be fixed, try new positions, toys, there are plenty of solutions.

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  ffmmllyaya  |  5

it really comes down to technique not size. he might only got two inches but I'm guessing he also got finger and tongue. either talk to him or atop bytching

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  lmfao1643  |  5

Too many negative votes, comment buried. Show the comment

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  CRUZs_GURL1  |  5

www.askmen.com/..64_love_tip.html i found this site trying to explain where women pee threw lol its a very intresting site told me some things that were amazing lol stop bitching tell him what you like if he cares then he should want you to reach the peek of climax.

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  ipts  |  5

#90 yeah, if it was a guy he should stob bein a b*tch about it too. she should just be thankful for what she has. sex quality isnt a thing u sacrifice a relationship for

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  ImaginaryFoe  |  5

Agreed with #1. Is the sex good though? Cos climaxing isn't everything (although it is awesome). Half the fun of a relationship is figuring out together how to have great sex. Experiment on your own and don't expect him to do all the work. Don't throw out an amazing bf over one fixable flaw. BTW, #111, what are you saying?

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  fringle  |  5

who cares! it's not like only sex matters!! if you're going to break up with your soulmate over something as overrated as sex then SHAME ON YOU.

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  malafacaeous  |  5

I agree with you 90 and I went from my last girlfriend who was into alot of shit and we had an awesome sex life but she it didn't work out. To a fuck buddy who is about the dullest lover I have ever had and I only sleep with her because she doesn't want a commitment. Wich I don't either right now since I am having to pay for my college outta my own pocket and can't afford one. But enough rambling it is equally frustrating for men and women who their lover can't make them orgasim.

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get a clue and take responsibility for your own orgasm. this idea that orgasms have to be given is bs, reach your hand down and play with your clit or something while having sex instead of just blaiming him because it sounds like you're no better at having sex than he is.

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  ohSNAPyall  |  5

@94: Uh, no. No, it is not. I don't care how mentally frustrated you are; your fuck buddy has it worse. At least you get to cum to relieve this. Clearly she is not getting the same from you. @OP: Tell him to spend more time on foreplay before sex. Better yet, have him make you orgasm before you have sex / before you play with him. He can be patient; he'll get his soon enough.

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  klynhunter  |  5

I have this problem, too. I don't see why everyone is griping at you. I'm completely in love with my BF, and I don't want anyone else. It would just be nice to know how an orgasm feels. I bet most of these people are guys that masturbate frequently, and thus take it for granted. I wish it was as hard for men to come as it is for women!

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  MQ_was_here  |  7

At #87: I wasn't getting technical and nor was I looking for the volume formula. I was just trying to say that length isn't all girls care about but also it's width. If you still don't get what I'm trying to then long story short: I wasn't talking about the math formula when I refered to LxW

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  FoxhoundEP3  |  11

disagree, if u really know what ur doing you would use your tonge and lips as well, you can lick AND suck the clit, so yes... ur mouth. unless u have never had that done ladies... u should ask for it

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  MQ_was_here  |  17

I second that. I mean, most girls cannot orgasm by penetration alone and need some stimulation. I usually don't say this but damn OP, YDI. Either you're a complete no0b when it comes to this stuff or just an airhead. Seriously if you had mentioned it nicely to him or even had tried to help yourself (pun intended) by doing some research, you'd be in a much better place. Girls should teach their preferences to their men given that the dude isn't totally lost too. Seriously.

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  kaijapapaya  |  17

I agree with you that it's not abnormal for a woman to have trouble getting an orgasm. But I bet within the two and a half years they've been together, they have tried other methods. It's possible that she could have a sexual dysfunction. Perhaps female orgasmic disorder??

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  silverskin  |  6

Hopefully, she already has one. Two and a half years of pent up sexual frustration would be a major suckfest especially if she gets turned on every time they get him off.

By  ThatOneAdamKid24  |  7

hardly an fml sorry. you have a great boyfriend, sex is only a by product of a relationship. it shouldn't be that important. plus it can be fixed, try new positions, toys, there are plenty of solutions.

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  o0XMzMayX0o  |  7

wow #9 great answer coming for a guy( o offence sorry!) OP - and u still haven't research this? it might b you not ur bf. You probaly make him believe he is doing fine so he isn't worried about that. YDI for worrin about sex so much it has Fu*ked ur life?!?!

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  mtc4ever  |  7

I can't orgasm and I've found that out after a long time and trying EVERYTHING. but sex has so many other amazing feelings, the o is just one more. also I love my bf more than anything, and he knows I can't o but he still tries, and sex isn't the basis of a relationship! I hate when people think it is! I think it's terrible the op is posting this. her poor bf.

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  ohSNAPyall  |  7

@9: Sex is pretty important. How would you like to be unable to come? Physical intimacy goes with emotional and mental intimacy. But I agree -- try new things! Be vocal! Use your hands! Don't be embarrassed -- he'll probably be turned on to see you like this, and he'll definitely be turned on when he sees how much more pleasure you get.

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