By Username - 08/07/2011 06:12 - United States
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I agree with 9. Guys have a knack for lying to their friends to make themselves look better. Pretty similar to old fisherman lies...my cock is...THIS big!! And similar to maybe making up some types of fish they caught could be which girls they had sex with. Seemed like a good analogy. If it gets the point across than yay..
I live an hour away from my gf and yes when I'm with her we do it most of the day which due to travel cost is roughly once a week although we do stay over a couple nights a month too but even so I don't cheat on her.. It's called love people not everyone is sex crazed maniacs
And to everyone that is going to say that maybe the girl should have slept with him more to avoid this, that's not right. Even if she did that he most likely would have still cheated. Apparently some people just can't go without sex. I don't get it. I've been in a relationship for over 2 years and we've only been fully intimate twice. Its NOT that big of a deal. Now if they were married that's another story.
Twice? Well, euhm, if you're happy with that it's okay, I guess. But don't forget you're an exception, most people don't like abstinence for several weeks. That being said, it's definitely not an excuse for cheating, so FYL OP. But may I suggest that, before you dump him, you have a talk with him? You'll never know, many people lie about sex to look cool. (pssh, why is marriage something different?)
12 - your point is invalid and you're contradicting yourself. you said he needs sex, so therefore, if she has sex with him, he will be satisfied. but you said that even if she does have sex with him, he will still cheat. why will he cheat? because he needs sex. which he just got from her, so your Conner makes no sense.
#12, I highly doubt he actually cheated. Just because he said that, it doesn't make him a cheater, and it also doesn't necessarily mean he's an asshole, either. Her boyfriend could be the sweetest guy in the world when alone with her, but friends tend to turn boyfriends into "assholes". He might be nervous around them, or for some reason feel like he needs to prove himself to them- it's immature, it's stupid, sure. But it doesn't turn him into an asshole or a bad boyfriend. OP, you should just talk to him about it, and if it really was just a lie, explain to him he needs to grow up and that he can't talk about you like that. Or listen to people like #12 (90% of FML) who rush to say "divorcedump himher" for every little thing.
I don't think they meant that as a blanket statement about all women. It's just that on average women do seem to have a lower sex drive than men. I know that I, personally, can go for weeks without sex and not be remotely bothered by it. It's just not that big a deal to me. What I have to say about the FML itself is this: There is always the possibility that the OP did try to initiate sex during those weeks but was turned down by her boyfriend because he's already getting it from somewhere else. It could be that she's not really doing it for him anymore and he just doesn't feel like having sex with her. We have several options that are possible. 1.She doesn't put out and so he's cheating with someone. 2. He's cheating because while she's willing to put out he doesn't feel like having sex with her. 3. He's cheating just because he can, and it's just coincidence that they haven't slept together in weeks. 4.He could be lying to his friends because she's a prude and he doesn't want them to know that. 5.He could be lying because he hasn't been feeling like sex but he doesn't want to admit that to his friends. 6. He could just be lying for the sake of lying. We just don't know from the few characters they allow you in an FML.
he would probably still cheat because if he needs sex, having sex more would make him want it more, it's like cigarettes, the more of it u have, the more u want it, so If she does have sex with him, he wants it more, so then to satisfy that craving, he will cheat.
revenge. make sure he can hear you when your talking to someone about how "bad he is in bed" then turn around and break up with him
May be he's giving you a Hint that You suck at Giving Blow jobs???( Think Positive) ;)
Maybe he just wants to show off to his friends and make them believe he still has a healthy sex life.
I agree. he probably felt left out of their conversation. Is there a reason that you haven't had sex for so long? Maybe you should do something that would give him something to talk about... or even better, do something so great that he'll have to tone it down in the retelling.
Maybe he's making it up cos you haven't had sex for weeks and he doesn't want them to know. Don't immediately think the worst until there's proof.