I actually think she did the right thing, it would be worse for you if she said "No" in front of the whole crowd. Oh, and you shouldn't be such a romantic guy and you should have asked her friends instead, or asked her indirectly.

That was nice of her. Would you have preferred to be humiliated in front of everyone?

...This is why you don't propose in public. Many people never come forward like your girlfriend did and remain in the marriage unhappy because they felt pressured to say yes. Marriage is a private love between two people - why does everyone else need to know you're proposing?

LOL at least she has a little class , I hope you just use.her as a **** piece or.have been

Sounds like your better without, she's more concerned about her image no one needs someone like that. Proposing in public takes a lot of guts

My bf proposed exactly a week ago. I'm glad he is shy because he did it on the beach where no one was around.. I woulda said yes either way but it's much more intimate and way less pressure this way. At least she spared you some ebarrassment though, sorry to hear she said no :(

It's really suck.

That was nice of her :)

Atleast she had enough respect to not embarrass you, and chose to tell you on the side.

Atleast she didn't embarrass you in public