Yeah if he slipped it in your ass he knew what he was doing. Secondly you can't just "slip it" in the ass without proper lube anyway. You should've felt him knocking at the back door and then you could've guided him to the front. If he slipped it in your ass, then he's not a virgin. You got scammed.

If you've masturbated before you actually had sex with him, you should tell him what you like and help him around. If he was also a virgin or pretty inexperienced he might not know his way around your lady bits

I've had that happen to me and it's definitely not something they can just accidentally slip into. It takes force to do that especially with no lube. I didn’t believe it was an accident when it happened to me and neither should you. That's a serious violation of respect and trust. Definitely not a keeper IMO

If he is a virgin, he doesnt know wtf he is doing. I can say I did the same thing once accidentally. We were in the shower so there was lots of water, but I really didn't know what had happened until she said something. When you are having sex with a virgin guy, you can't expect him to know what he is doing. Don't give him a lot of shit for screwing up, having good sex for you too will need communication and practice. And lots and lots of practice with communication. Good luck OP, you are going about a relationship the hard way, so it will take extra effort to make it work, but maybe worth the payoff ):

Gullible would describe 99.9% of these responses. This is clearly made up.

The first time pretty much always sucks, married or not. This is why I never understand the whole waiting until marriage thing but hey, each to their own. At least you have a lot to look forward to!

Yes, it is possible to not know what you're doing this badly. I had an ex med worker telling me how they seriosly got a couple who had managed to get the thing up the *urethra* all along without either realizing something was off. They were there for 'infertility'...

While I respect your right to choose, personally I think waiting 'till marriage to have sex is probably one of the stupidest things a person can do. Sex is such a large part of a relationship that if you aren't compatible you should know that before entering into marriage. More so, first times suck regardless of the status of the relationship. Being marriage doesn't change how it will feels. First times are not romantic or special, they either hurt or you feel nothing and if the guy's inexperienced too then it's over in less than a minute. Sex needs experience to feel good and last long enough. I certainly would not have wanted to spend my wedding night feeling awkward and uncomfortable. I'd much rather not be able to walk the next day because I was so satisfied due to my experience and knowledge of mine and my partner's body and needs. I sincerely hope you got past this mishap and have moved on to a fulfilling sexual relationship. I'm also having trouble with how this is actually possible. Unless you had your legs on his shoulders or were doing it from behind, how could it slip in? And more so, how much slipped in? Are we talking just the tip or the whole hog? The former being fairly easy to do, that's happen to me once or twice, and the later being next to impossible without preparation and lubrication. And I'm sorry but there is a big difference between a ****** and an anus, how could he not know? Education is always a must.

Well he certainly does not sound like a Virginia. Sorry OP it sounds like he doesn't respect you. Or he may just be extremely dim but I doubt that since he made a corny excuse for heat he did.

Congratulations on your wedding. Hopefully the sex part gets better as time passes.

He knew, just playing ignorant

Cut the guy some slack...no one is born knowing this! You too!