By the other man - 28/08/2013 03:11 - United States - Fort Smith
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What a ridiculous situation. You should end it with her immediately
#22 Well obviously she has justified her actions as fine. My guess is her rationale from the fml is something like "My husband pisses me off, so he deserves to be cheated on." Most people won't do things repeatedly against their morales, unless in extreme circumstances.
So many people are unfaithful these days. It's really causing me to lose hope in relationships.
Consider when researched "monogamous" animals like swans still sought other partners at times. Also consider that humans closest relative is the bonobo. What is so unique about that animal? They solve everything with orgies. Around the globe and through most of history, serial monogamy and polygamy are the norm, not life long monogamy. In one study it was found on average only 20% of people were 100% monogamous for life... The others engaged in cheating, serial monogamy (multiple marriages and divorces) or polygamy. So when you consider that... If you want to know why humans suck at monogamy you should read te book Sex at Dawn.
@54 You don't really believe that women just started cheating now do you? Women, like men, have been cheating for centuries. People have believed that it was mostly men simply because women have been better at lying about it. We see more women cheating today simply because lying is becoming more difficult with today's fast-paced, connected lifestyle.
Damn, I feel like I'm going to end up marrying someone like that. It's just my luck, sounds like yours too. ...unless you marry me...oh, whaaaaat?
Get to know her husband without her knowing about it, then show up to watch some sports. Then tell her husband about the affair with her present. "She promised me she wasn't married"
I think you shouldn't get the husband involved. It's such a touchy topic whether to tell, or don't tell.. However; I am a strong believer in karma and he will find out when it's right (maybe he already knows?). It's no use getting involved in their relationship, because once you end things she may just end up going to someone else. And if it was me, yes I feel like I've been cheated on... However if I was the husband, I wouldn't want to find out in spite of her.