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I agree, but first you have to explain to her that what she is doing is wrong and unfair to her husband and to tell him about it. Lets hope he doesnt beat you up afterwards!
8 - I doubt she thinks what she is doing is right..
#22 Well obviously she has justified her actions as fine. My guess is her rationale from the fml is something like "My husband pisses me off, so he deserves to be cheated on." Most people won't do things repeatedly against their morales, unless in extreme circumstances.
really? I would of thought he'd keep seeing her.
take her phone when shes not paying attention then send her hausband of a pic with you and her saying shes cheating on you.
She is using you, obviously. If you are smart, you know cutting her from your life is the way to go.
Just be thankful that it's only been 6 months and that hopefully nothing too serious happened between you guys during that period of time. Other than that, like 1 said, leave her ass.
So many people are unfaithful these days. It's really causing me to lose hope in relationships.
I think she knows that. She's just implying that it's gotten ALOT worse over the years.
21, when humans first walked the earth, there was no "marriage" You reproduced, got your mate pregnant, and moved on.
38 IS technically correct, I don't see why he's getting thumbed down.
Consider when researched "monogamous" animals like swans still sought other partners at times. Also consider that humans closest relative is the bonobo. What is so unique about that animal? They solve everything with orgies. Around the globe and through most of history, serial monogamy and polygamy are the norm, not life long monogamy. In one study it was found on average only 20% of people were 100% monogamous for life... The others engaged in cheating, serial monogamy (multiple marriages and divorces) or polygamy. So when you consider that... If you want to know why humans suck at monogamy you should read te book Sex at Dawn.
@54 You don't really believe that women just started cheating now do you? Women, like men, have been cheating for centuries. People have believed that it was mostly men simply because women have been better at lying about it. We see more women cheating today simply because lying is becoming more difficult with today's fast-paced, connected lifestyle.
Tell her husband to piss him off!
Why should op tell the husband!?! He could get his ass kicked for HER wrong doing. And besides its not op's job to confess a grown women's wrong doing.
Damn, I feel like I'm going to end up marrying someone like that. It's just my luck, sounds like yours too. ...unless you marry me...oh, whaaaaat?
Lucky OP. Soon to be single (I hope), and already being hit on.
It was a joke. Not looking for an "asshat" as you call it or someone off of fml. Ha. Im perfectly capable of finding someone otherwise, just lightening the mood!
At least you know now..
How did he find out though? Big daddy come find them two in bed?!
Get to know her husband without her knowing about it, then show up to watch some sports. Then tell her husband about the affair with her present. "She promised me she wasn't married"
I think you shouldn't get the husband involved. It's such a touchy topic whether to tell, or don't tell.. However; I am a strong believer in karma and he will find out when it's right (maybe he already knows?). It's no use getting involved in their relationship, because once you end things she may just end up going to someone else. And if it was me, yes I feel like I've been cheated on... However if I was the husband, I wouldn't want to find out in spite of her.
Yah cause that would work out so much better when they're friends "By the way during this whole friendship I was banging your wife"
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What a ridiculous situation. You should end it with her immediately
She is using you, obviously. If you are smart, you know cutting her from your life is the way to go.