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By  Welshite  |  39

I'd rather be a 25 year old virgin with no romantic experience than a 14 year old who likes to play Russian Roulette with STDs and underage pregnancy. Don't be ashamed of being yourself.

  mattmillabruh  |  12

I'm 16, I lost my virginity at 14. If anybody cares...this shit sucks. Let's be honest tho, sex is great. But losing your virginity too early will fuck. You. Over. And yes, 14 is WAY too young OP, trust me, I know lol.
But back to what I was tryna say. Save yourself until you REALLY find THE ONE. Because if you lose it to the wrong person your view on life will change drastically.

  Mauskau  |  35

Vastly would be if he was 10 or 11, however a lot of places have a legal age of 16 so his brother is only two years off, which is the age that most people I know of had lost their virginity. People just want a reason to be mean to eachother especially their siblings, it wouldn't surprise me if OP's brother doesn't stay with the person for long anyway, whereas OP will probably stay with the person who is their first. Unless they're like a guy I went on 3 dates with that declared his love to me after we established there was nothing between us, then that's another story...

  ethenkray  |  19

Although some states allow 15 years of age, it's still pretty young for a person.

73 & 86 - all states have a minimum consensual age, ranging from 15-18, 16 being most common.

By  Welshite  |  39

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  JustinJK  |  21

Not bragging, but I lost mine in 9th grade. I've always practiced safe sex, and I've never had STDs. I've never really seriously dated anyone. I'll get married and have a family one day, but I shouldn't feel ashamed because I enjoy having casual sex. Although I'm not going to mock dome one who is a virgin though.

  brocho  |  26

True, but the pill rarely fails. It only fails if you don't take it daily like you're supposed to. If you miss even one day you're not good to have sex for about a month of taking it daily. Too many people think that they can just take it whenever they want to have sex, and that's not true.
My parents were married for 12 years before deciding to have me, and they never even had a close call in those 12 years. When they decided to have me and my mom got off the pill, my mom got pregnant immediately. But for 12 whole years before that, there were no issues.

  doodycakes  |  16

I lost mine 11th grade and as long as you play it safe and do it with someone you trust, there's nothing wrong with it. Use protection and take it slow and make sure you actually care about the person.

  Emirac  |  10

#57 no, the pill fails sometimes even if taken as directed. That's why it isn't claimed to work 100% of the time. My mother took it perfectly, and obviously if she's my mother, it didn't work.

  zeffra13  |  31

#140 It only fails if your body doesn't absorb the pill properly, or if you have unusual hormone levels and should be on a stronger pill. The first can be caused by throwing up, diarrhea, being on antibiotics or other medicine, intestines not functioning properly, you take the pill just before going to sleep, etc. You really have to know your body.


I have no clue why this comment is being upvoted, I have no idea how it would cheer me up if I found out my little brother has STDs at the age of 14. If you ask me no one is winning in that occasion. One of them is dying and the other one is loosing his underage brother.