You people do realize that not all people exchange rings when they are getting married. My cousins are SDA and they don't believe in wedding rings. They have three kids and I would hate for people to look down on her just b/c she isn't wearing a ring when she has been married for many years now.

Some people don't believe in a god, so the choose to not be married under a god. Marriage is a religious concept; if you don't have a religion, why bother getting married? Just because someone isn't married doesn't mean they can't have kids. That lady was quite rude :(

Ok you're officially awesome. And with regards to your last post I actually completely agree with everything you said. In fact I don't really even care to much how the OP or anyone for that matter lives their lives. I just enjoy watching people get angry on the internet.

maybe you should have been more careful taking your birth control... or not have sex?

Well, first of all, I don't know why most people are assuming that she's not married. True, the woman was being a tad bit judgemental, but that is only because she also made the presumption. It's not like the ring is what constitutes the essence of the marriage. Love or religion doesn't have anything to do with marriage either. Marriage pre-dates religion, so I don't know why most people are associating the two. People were getting married for wealth, money, and power long before religion was even established. It's quite possible for two to be wed without love, just as a loving couple can bear a child without having a wedding ring (or a wedding period for that matter). @OP, you don't deserve the disrespect that woman showed you, but your life isn't really ****** either. I mean, it's just one person. Perhaps you are acquainted with this person, or perhaps she is a complete stranger. I cannot tell from this post. That woman does have a right to her opinion, even if it is a little misled and judgemental, in my opinion.

Can we stop fighting and focus on the moral of the FML? Some people like myself do not believe in sex before marrige. But that does not give anyone the right to call us idiots. Some people do not believe we have to wait for marrige. That does not give anyone the right to say they don't have morals. So please stop the religious fighting and try to be respectful like it tells you before you comment.

First, I want to give some of the posters on here a definition lesson: abomination is what is used by the church to discuss children born out of wedlock. bastard is a term for a "father-less" child. Watching "where the heart is" or picking up any dictionary will inform you of this. OP... dont worry about some bitter biddie sitting next to you on a plane... who knows if she had kids, or if they're serial killers now. A simple "Dont judge me" always puts people in their place though for future reference!!! (that and "why would you say that"?)

1) my parents had me in high school, dad was 15, mom was 17, my gram wouldn't let them get married until my dad graduated. I'm going to be 28 and my parents just celebrated their 25 anniversary and i turned out just fine. so as long as two people love and care for each other is all that matters. 2) morality is objective. what is moral to one culture, or person can be considered immoral to another. the death penalty is a good example. 3) can't we all just get along.

If perhaps you look really young, then I understand her reaction. Other than that, well...I guess that's just the way some people think. I wish the best for you and your baby, regardless of your marital status. (:

Keep on living your life for yourself and try not to care what others say. Just brush that dirt right off your shoulder, sister. Peace&Love

You should of dumped the vomit on her. I would've, and then I'd take out my phone and record her reaction then put it up on youtube.

Lol ***** with a bastard in the womb.