By Anonymous - 15/04/2016 19:46 - United States - Bronx
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#8 beat me to it. The parents are utterly in the wrong for making a rule that requires their kid to have sex anywhere other than their own home (which 90% of the time would mean somewhere less safe, and less clean). Completely shameful parenting imo. Any respect/trust the boyfriend has in his parents will soon be destroyed if they keep this up. EDIT: this was meant to be a reply to #6's comment, but oops, whatever
I don't disagree with you in principle, #12, but I doubt their rule REQUIRES their son to have sex ANYWHERE. To the contrary, I would guess that the spirit of the rule is to discourage him from having sex at all, but they're smart enough to know they can only enforce it in their own home. That's all assuming he's a minor. If he's an adult, that's different. Then it's just about respecting the parents' home that the son CHOOSES to continue living in. There's no good reason two adults can't respect the parents' rule and find a better place. Either way, if the parents deliberately locked OP in the garage, there's no excuse for that, and they don't deserve the respect they demand.
#65 in theory yes, but rules like 'no sex under my roof' only teach kids to do it somewhere else instead (or to be smarter about not getting caught). The rule has a potential for serious harm, and can bring about very little good. It's your kid, not a housemate. Please try to create rules that minimise the potential harm your kid may be exposed to rather than exacerbate it. Don't know where to start? Create a fucking pros and cons chart for god's sake. You're adults, it is not that hard. Not trying to attack you, but I just really despise parents who pull this sort of shit.
That is a bit over the top. They are your boyfriend's parents and can punish HIM however they please for breaking the rules. However, it is neither their right nor their responsibility to discipline you. Calling your parents is to be expected, but what they did was out of line.
Were you guys having sex in the garage? If not then that's kinda f***ed up.