By anonymous - 12/02/2010 05:03 - United States

Today, I found out the guy I've been dating is heavily into a mystical card game and spends all of his money going to "Magic" card conventions across the country. FML
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Same thing different taste

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So? This isn't a FML. This is you not being accepting of other people's hobbies.

"Some guy I'm not even committed to has a hobby. FML."

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habesjn 0

Magic is pure fun. I play a tcg that is somewhat similar, called Legend of the 5 Rings. My girlfriend knows and is fine with it. She doesn't think it's the coolest thing I've ever done but she respects my hobbies and how I spend my money. Maybe the OP should take some time to learn from my girlfriend. What a bitch.

Note that I am not calling him a loser. I hate it when people don't care about another persons hobby. I still have a bunch of those cards from years ago. I never fully knew how to play but the artwork is really good.

I am surrounded by nerd men. All of my male friends play MTG or L5R or both. There is a healthy smattering of D&D thrown in there too, as well as various video game tournies and some MMO love. I married a nerd this past Halloween. It's wonderful...he is sweet, attentive, doesn't show me disrespect, and includes me in most of the things he does. I play MTG casually, but not so much on L5R...I love WoW (again, casually), but could live without Aion, etc. It doesn't cost a lot of money, it's stuff we can do together, and when he is out playing cards with the guys, I never have to worry, and I am usually invited along. Stop whining and learn to be a real woman. I'm not suggesting you go build your own Sliver deck or anything, but FFS, show a man some respect for having his own interests. Gah. It irks me to no end when women whine about their men liking comic books, sports, video games, etc...try actually learning about what your man is interested in, and you may be shocked to find he'll reciprocate. Yeah. Maybe you should ditch your nerd and get with a guy that prefers excessive amounts of beer and women instead. Those relationships usually end well.

MangeMoi_fml 0

I hate dumb *****. How do you know she hasnt looked into his hobby to know she doesnt like it? Stop assuming things. And she clearly worded that he spends ALL his money traveling to these things. That would be a problem. So because she doesnt like the freakin' shit doesn't make her a bitch; just makes you all sound dumb. **** muscles.

i hate dumb ***** that dont read the fml correctly, we know she doesnt know about it because a) she doesnt know the name of the game and b) called the game "mystical" and also those conventions he goes to should have tournaments with a lot of money rewards

fuckducks 0

shut the **** up mangiefag you *****. you're very ugly and stupid looking. you may as well be a gorilla u ****** ****. read the fml correctly next time you stupid ****** bitch.

wizzard_fml 0

lots of magic fan-boys here! (don't linch me, I used to play too ;) If it's a hobby, that's ok. If it's an obsession... not so cool. If he does indeed spend ALL of his money ( like you wrote and nobody seemed to notice) instead of paying bills, or buying food...well, you're right, so... FYL! lol ;)

No, I think she forgot the words "(all his money) that he should be spending on me"

so? it's a hobby, it's what people do they spend mmoney on them. just like collecting action figures/dolls or anything else

YDI for not understanding that decks in magic can cost over a 1000$, and he can win prize money up to 5000$

Bahahaha. "Magic" is not a "mystical" card game. It's no more mystical than any other card game. I don't play it, and I'm not at all interested in it, but I have friends that play it. The only possible FYL here would be if he really did spend thousands and thousands of dollars on it. There's nothing FYL about the "mystical" card game :P

dragonite6935 0

this kind of crap pisses me off. I hate it when people think of something as geekish. magic is a great game to play; it encourages the imagination. I play role playing games such as dungeons and dragons, where u have to create stories and characters. Tcha, it's a much better hobby than getting drunk and high every weekend.

this belongs on failbooking or something.

Asides from what everyone else is saying about it being just a hobby that requires some intelligence unlike a lot of other hobbies he could have, it's not even really that nerdy. And it's not really a waste of money either (although I don't know why you'd care what he spent his money on) as magic cards don't really lose much of their value over time and if he ever decides to quit playing he'll probably get most of what he spent back from selling them.

Hey, I'm a girl and my boyfriend and I both play Magic, we place at tournaments, and win cash. Instead of being a stuck up little bitch, how about you try something new, rather than assuming that your boyfriend is a loser? Instead of whining about how he spends "all of his money" traveling, how about you go with him on a mini-vacation? Most tournaments are a weekend. My boyfriend and I have plans to go to Washington DC and Philly to play Magic and see the sights. What's bad about that?