Ouch...

'confronted her' sounds like the argument was gonna happen. Why confront and not just ask her or talk to her? she should be able to have a vibrator and not hide it. but she also needs to communicate if she isn't happy in bed.

The way he expressed himself makes it look like she should have asked permission for buying one, way too possessive

why do guys gets so pissy bout this? not our fault very few women can 'reach' the same way a guy can :P

Not all guys get upset about it, I've bought my previous gf's toys

didnt say all guys :P, but that is good that you did

I wouldn’t get pissy , we all enjoy time to our self

Some men just don't know how to push the right buttons XD

Ain’t that the truth

Theres nothing wrong with your girlfriend using toys. You however sound insecure in your ability to satisfy her, which isnt helping anyone.

It sounds more like she was using it as a replacement behind his back, instead of talking to him and seeing what they could do about how things could improve. her last comment doesn't really seem to give off the vibe that he has any reason to NOT be insecure.

How do you know that she didn't tell him and he just doesn't give a shit? He could have just asked her about it, too, if he noticed that she wasn't happy in bed. And yes, you notice when you are not just focussed on your own pleasure.

Um why the fuck should she “secretly” purchase it and what the fuck do you have to confront her about? Unless she’s forbidden you the joy of porn hub and a quick wank. Then you you’ve got a valid point being pissed. Not about her BOB but about her hypocrisy.

If you get jealous of her having an intimate personal moment that’s your problem not her’s. Getting pissed about the BOB doing a faster job is like being pissed that a vette smoked an Amish buggy. Some times you want to take is slow and enjoy, some time you wanna get it done and move on.

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Where does it say she's a leech huh? or that she rarely puts out? Wow you really hate women. Well, not real ones but the straw (wo)men you imagine. That must make it very hard to function in a world half full of the things eh?

She's a goddamn adult who can use a vibrator if she wants. Fuck your ego.

Possessive much, OP? Does she have to ask your permission to use the toilet, too?

Ya, FYL for having a girlfriend who enjoys sex. I mean, what guy wants that, amirite?

Well she doesn't enjoy sex with someone who apparently doesn't care about making it good for her.

What the hell? She can do whatever the hell she wants with her body. Men who get jealous of vibrators are possessive and insecure, and I’ve heard the argument “it’ll stretch out her vagina” bullshit, that’s not how they work. Does your foreskin keep getting longer and longer from all the boners? No.