By arekusa - 23/06/2011 03:00 - United States

Today, I found out my boyfriend's mother thinks I'm a loser and a scumbag. We haven't even met yet. FML
I agree, your life sucks 33 317
You deserved it 3 483

Same thing different taste

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iAmScrubs 19

Dress up in a Barney suit for the first time you meet her. No one thinks Barney is a scumbag except the people who want to put his head on a barbecue.

Ah, this looks like the start of something wonderful (horrible).


Ah, this looks like the start of something wonderful (horrible).

protective mother? maybe she wants u to switch teams? or stay home forever with her

ReptarRAWR23 0

I'd get the hell out of dodge!

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SirEBC 7

Sometimes my shoe becomes untied, so I have to tie it again. Oh, sorry. I thought we were all posting things completely irrelevant to the first comment so that EVERYONE could view our profound contributions.

Lately there has been many FMLs about rude mothers. But FYL OP, you should ignore her and continue the relationship with your boyfriend if you really love him.

juicedboi 7

- 27 not necessarily true. 2 of my ex's mums hated me because I have tags and piercings. Even before they had met me they hated me. Besides OP, it's a good thing. Everyone wants to go out with that person their mum doesn't approve of.

27, plenty of people make assumptions based on nothing... I don't know where you would get the idea that nobody judges anyone else..

Randuhh_17 4

Or the start of another Jane Fonda movie... Another future Monster-in-law?

I'm sure it's nothing personal. No worries.

Osito2011 9

sounds like a start to a normal relationship. my mom didn't like my girlfriend at first. you are taking her baby boy away from her being the new woman in his life. so when you have a real fml op post that not this. this is normal

People judge you from your eHarmony profile pic.

33, how is it irrelevant? Any relationship is more difficult when their parents hate you. How about you go back to insulting the people who actually care if they're first?

Hm... Maybe I shouldn't post on things two minutes after waking up. So easy to get mixed up.

OceanBreathesSal 5

36 I think it's rude mothers day

Well OP, you ARE from New York... By DEFAULT, you have to show up to show your driver's license (that you are NOT from New Jersey), and so they can see you are not a *****, loser, and scumbag.

iAmScrubs 19

Dress up in a Barney suit for the first time you meet her. No one thinks Barney is a scumbag except the people who want to put his head on a barbecue.

ZombieeeeUnicorn 1

I used to be scared of Barney... :o

carmenm 6

didn't the guy who played Barney turn out to be a child molester?

iAmScrubs 19

There goes anything valid in my comment.

ZombieeeeUnicorn 1

29- he was?!! >.< and I wanted be one of the 'friends'

notsocrazee 0

I thought he swore in front of kids and was carrying coke (not the drink, or the ore) in his suit.

A7X_LoVeee 10

Yeah he definitely had drugs. Didn't the same happen with the guy from Blues Clues? Smh..

kc1997kc 9

Barney did drugs and swore and the Blues Clues guy was a child molester. That's what I'd heard.

iAmScrubs 19

It's not the person wearing the suit, it's Barney as a whole. Stop hating because most of my comments involve child molesters.

uhm I thought this comment was a reference to Barney Stinson on How I Met Your Mother, not the purple dinosaur.. :s

Fmyspam 0

Just think, it can only get better from here! Then again, it probably could get worse given circumstances.

Don't worry, just act nice when you do meet her.

whyask 0

i wonder what your boyfriend tells her about you then....

very true, can't help but wonder exactly what kinds of things her son has told her about you OP

StarReis 16

that's exactly what I was thinking..

Not necessarily anything bad. My last boyfriend's mother thought pretty much the same about me, purely because he mentioned to her that I had my lip pierced and that I was taking a year off from university. She decided that meant I was a terrible person and a bad influence on her son, without ever meeting me or learning anything else about me.

assumptions! im sorry about that, where is she getting those ideas? is there any way you could act (without pretending to be a new person) when you meet her? but honestly, if she doesn't know you and is saying shit bout you, don't take it too personally. she must be bitter.

your photo is very... uhm... yeah don't sell yourself over the net like that, its gross

jordanalexis97 0

The solution to that is simple: Prove her wrong when you meet her. :) Goodluck! But it doesn't look like you guys will be getting along with her being...Well...Her.