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Oooh man, that just sucks all around! I wish I could give you a hug!
While I understand you should not look through other people's things, I don't think you deserved it. She must have suspected something, so she looked to catch him and he got caught. Screw that asshole. I had a similiar situation when I was a teenager. My BF at the time kept talking about other girls around me while saying he still loved me. Low and behold, his password was Ilove*some other girl's name*. I hope people don't jump on my throat saying "you were probably a bad GF", because I wasn't. Stupid and naive, yes, for staying with him for so long and his asshole-liness. Finding that out give a reason and proof to break up with him.
You don't know what you are talking about. If she seriously believed he was cheating, or had some kind of evidence, there are better ways to confirm it than hacking your husbands' e-mail account. She has no trust in this guy, and he is probably doing it because of that.
I agree with number 13. If she didn't see, she wouldn't have found out Obviously she has a reason not to trust him.
so you wouldn't mind if your partner went through your things, then? Even married couples are allowed to have a little bit of privacy! Imagine if he had been planning a surprise trip for her or something, but because of her prying, she spoiled it? OP: He had no right to cheat on you, and you should prolly leave him, but I don't agree with going through people's things. If your trust for him was that bad, maybe you shouldn't have stayed with him this long anyway.
My ex had all my passwords and access to my phone. I gave them to her to show her I trusted her with them. She never used the passwords unless I asked her to because I never gave her a reason not to trust me. That's fine if you want your privacy, but if you aren't hiding anything I don't see why it's a big deal for them to see your email or anything else
Gutted for you about him cheating but still hacking into his stuff isn't right! basic human rights!
The right to privacy is. If emails weren't meant to be private then they wouldn't require passwords to access them. OP: Whilst that blows that you're being cheated on (assuming that you're completely innocent), you shouldn't go snooping around in other people's things. Lest you find something that you wish you hadn't.
Sure, just keep living with your head up your ass, wasting your life with a cheating husband because you were too righteous to act on your suspicions. That sounds like a lovely lie to live. Listen. He was cheating, he was probably a bit careless and gave her reason to suspect, and he got caught. It's not her fault that she protected herself.
ironically enough, I was going to argue against your point that it is a basic human right (because i thought that was pretty ridiculous when you compare it to the basic human rights of being able to seek medical treatment, not having to be held as a slave, etc), but upon referencing the UN's Universal Declaration of Human Rights - privacy is in fact listed: Article 12. * No one shall be subjected to arbitrary interference with his privacy, family, home or correspondence, nor to attacks upon his honour and reputation. Everyone has the right to the protection of the law against such interference or attacks. Still though, she wouldn't have had to invade his privacy is he would've just been honest with her. Confronting him obviously wasn't going to work, and she had no other way of confirming that her husband is the lying scumbag that he is. Two wrongs don't make a right, sure, but let's not forget that his actions WERE wrong.