you shouldve talked to your friend about that just a liiiitle earlier

Well, sucks to be you. You're TOO trusting.

I wonder if she knew something all along and didn't have the heart to tell you, and used this as a way of letting you know? I'm glad you found out now, and wish hope things work out for you.

it's douchebags like him that give us nice dudes bad names>(

Well better late than never, I guess. FYL though-both for your husband cheating on you and for him taking advantage of your trust.

She was doing him too, and that is how she knew.

Every time I hear a an talk they either oink or bark :/

awww, this stinks, that is why i never lie to my girlfriend or would cheat on her. i gave her both my MSN and facebook password, and i know i never would do anything like that to her. you can still trust men in our world... :) at least she can.

Doesn't mean you can't trust any man. Doesn't mean you can trust all women either. People in general suck.

I'm so sorry to hear that your husband has been doing this, but to say that no man can be trusted is stupid. I have never cheated on anyone, and never will. I travel as part of my job, and usually spend 4 days a week away from home. I wouldn't even add my ex-girlfriends from high school as friends on Facebook without making sure it was OK with her. Some, if not most, men can be trusted.