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Because it's a trick question. Anyone that gives an ultimatum like that, is looking for a power trip to see if he'll choose her over a game (that she probably know has him at full attention). He's already dammed for not picking her right away. Poor little mouse enduring his wheel.
60 - DITTO!! Lol shame on this GF who would dare make her BF choose a brand new game over her!! Seriously?!? Game for 3-4 hrs, sexy time for 15 mins, game for 3-4 hrs!!! Really, that's what I would've done. My hubby knows when I get a new game, I'll be occupied, so he can wait his turn. Lol. Usually we're in separate rooms, playing our games, talking over XBL. When it's time for lovin', a simple "let's fuck" comment is all that's needed. Pause the game, get our groove on, then back to assassinating bitches!! :D OP, you should be ashamed of yourself. Next thing you know she'll be making him choose watching the game over taking her to the mall. Poor BF!!!
I think it's mostly normal now for gamer guys to have gamer girlfriends. I mean, my bf and I have been together 8 years. We shoot zombies on the Xbox (I always get the shotgun...) we have sex, then we make our 9pm raid for Mists of Pandaria. I raid lead and he's my tank. I think now couples are closer and have more quality time together because of that option of sharing the same likes. And if I don't like his preference in game, I'll play for a bit to appease him, (yes I will try my best and not do it half assed.. That's just stupid) and he compromises and plays my RPG's. No big deal. Women like OP are the type to complain that they aren't getting enough attention. Their man is spending too much time on his game and doesn't listen to her while he plays. Boohoo. He probably plays for two/three hours a day, and sometimes it does take concentration! Nobody can give or have someone's constant attention. Also; I hope OP's bf picked the game. Especially if it was new and he just got it that day. She should know how it is to wait to have something, excitement building, then finally obtain it. You want to play with the damn thing!
As a gamer I feel like I should point out that I don't see how this would be possible. It's either sex first and no cuddle time which would leave her unhappy (or him in my case), sex while playing, which would NOT happen, gotta focus on dem video games, or sex after and she would probably fall asleep before he was done playing for the night. Therefore, I don't think both would be a choice.
76- you're only 17, maybe you should grow up first before talking smack. If you're under 21, you haven't lived long enough to say things like "grow up" when you're a baby yourself. I realize I sound like an ass, but, as long my point gets across, that's all that matters, enjoy the fml battle royal
Wow that's just a little too obsessive, I'm a gamer myself but if those options presented themselves the game would remain unused.
He started crying over deciding whether to have sex or play a video game? Go get yourself a real man!
Personally, women who make a men choice between them and a video game are not women, they are little girls. There is no reason what so ever to make your significant other give up their hobby because you're feeling jealous you're not getting all their attention. As long as your boyfriend is spending quality time with you, there is NO reason to force them to choose between the two. Of course, OP could have given him sex THEN let him play his game; a win win situation for all!
Guys, I seriously doubt OP expected her given choices to be a huge dilemma for her boyfriend, because any well adjusted person who loves his girlfriend would immediately choose his girlfriend over a video game with no thought. Given his reaction, he likely DOES neglect his girlfriend because he's addicted to a video game, which may be why she gave him a choice to either spend time with her OR play his video game. Had she let him have a both, I bet he would have ignored her all night while playing the game, and sex would either not happen at all, or be rushed, lacking in passion, tragically unsatisfying, and followed by him ignoring her while he plays his video game the rest of the night. And, yes, I do indeed speak from personal experience. I dumped the loser. OP's boyfriend better get his priorities straight or he will likely find himself single.
81) There's absolutely nothing wrong with video games. I enjoy them myself. I, however, don't neglect my boyfriend or any of my other human relationships in favor of them. What's wrong is when people become addicted to them, or anything else for that matter, so that they miss out on real relationships and experiences. A choice between spending time with your girlfriend and playing a video game should be no choice at all. People should always come first in your life.
149, read my subsequent comment. I never said that he should never have time to himself or play video games. His reaction here just tells me that he's overly obsessed with this game. A reasonable reaction, if he wanted to play his game, would be, "Do you think you could come over in a few hours? I just got this game and I'm really excited to play it!" If she thought that was unreasonable, then yes, she would be the one with issues.
I think you are making it a big deal. I don't care if my boyfriend chooses video games (probably cause I play with him) but I'm not gonna get upset about it and I'm not gonna make him choose. If he wants alone time he will make it clear and if he just wants time to play then let him. Now if he spends to much time playing just talk to him about it and he should understand.