Maybe pick the person you're marrying better and don't rush into things before you're ready for them.

Dry cleaning, takes forever doesn't it.

Not only that, the wedding dress was clean and new again, not used and soiled with the stain of failure. -Sorry-

I think it's just me, but I believe divorce is wrong. I believe one marriage should last a life time. Where did communication and happiness go? Why is cheating so common? People should not get married if they have any doubts, especially if they have divorce insurance or getting married is like signing a contract stating who will get what if a divorce does happen. And abuse? I'm pretty sure the spouse has showed aggression before marriage or the other spouse just let it get out of control. Checks and balances. The number one secret to a good relationship is communication. That is actually two parts. Talking AND listening to your partner. Most forget how to listen and even stop learning about their partner. Tip of the day, go do something nice for your special someone. Go buy them some flowers, take them out, give them a nice massage without expecting anything back, listen to their rants and their day. Show them you love them.

Oh no that isn't good sorry to hear that

Wow

Maybe you should've waited longer before marrying this guy. It sounds like you rushed into it if it lasted less than 3 months.

How long was the marriage? Less than three.

You gave up after three montgs?! That's just sad

Most of mine and my husbands friends that got married around the same time as us are all divorced. We've been married 5 years now. We love each other but more than that want to be together and so we work it out when we fight and don't just give up on it. The funny part is all our friends thought we would be the first to divorce and we are the only ones still married :)

Lots of speculation here which may or may not be correct. What a lot of people forget is that sometimes the divorce is the other spouse's decision. Once someone makes their mind up about something, it's hard to convince them otherwise. I always thought of myself as having "too much strength and determination" to ever get a divorce. I'd tell myself that I'd never give up on a marriage. Well, what I didn't realize was that if my spouse has given up and wants nothing more than to get out, there ultimately isn't much I can do about it. Marriage counseling? Sounds great on paper, but what if the other person refuses to go? This happened to me two years ago. Sometimes you are at the mercy of someone else's whims, and there's nothing you can do other than to set them free so they can be happy.

Maybe you should learn to talk things out instead of ditching out right away. Three months? Really? People like you = reasons our marriage to divorce rates are so high.