By Anonymous - 1/7/2020 20:08

All weddings are themed

Today, I went to pick up my wedding dress from the seamstress, only to find out that my fiancé called two weeks ago to say I wanted the dress "tie-dyed to match our new theme." She believed him. Our wedding is tomorrow. FML
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By  Ambrily  |  27

Is your fiance a prankster or is he just trying to sabotage the wedding because he changed his mind? You should try and ask about that before you both make a mistake that will ruin your lives.

I'm really sorry, OP.

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By  Ambrily  |  27

Is your fiance a prankster or is he just trying to sabotage the wedding because he changed his mind? You should try and ask about that before you both make a mistake that will ruin your lives.

I'm really sorry, OP.

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  ChibiChibi_fml  |  27

It's possible that the answer is neither and the OP may find out that the Finance had it "Tie-dyed to match our new theme" because the Fiance has actually adjusted the theme and made sure the bride fit in to it. I've read and heard multiple stories about partners (and family members) changing wedding details to suit what they want behind the brides back because they either don't think the brideand/or know based on the bride saying no that the bride will accept the things they want. There is a push in the world that it is "The brides day" when it really isn't. It's the couples days but so often people go "What the bride wants the bride should get, it's her day make her feel like a princess" . So perhaps the guy wants to get married but he didn't want to deal with a bridezilla planner. Not saying that excuses it, just saying that it may not be a case of joking or trying to break up with the bride but simply had his own plan for what he wanted and failed to compromise.

By  RichardPencil  |  28

You're going to look so beautiful!

I'm tired of boring white. And let's get real -- who's a virgin these days?

You'll be able to rock at the reception because if people spill on you, no one will be the wiser.

By  crashtestdumplin  |  12

If it is hideous, but you absolutely love the dress otherwise, maybe you can salvage it with elaborate lace, beading, rhinestones, or tulle. If it is not a one-of-a -kind then I would repurchase. If not affordable and/or available, maybe rent a similar design. I don’t know your financial situation or how big the wedding is, but I assume it cannot be postponed on a moments notice. I’m sorry that happened, but I like to believe in the best of people and I assume your future husband thought the seamstress would call you before proceeding and you both would get a good laugh out of it and say something along the lines of “could you imagine if she actually did that, I would have panicked”. However since it did happen, now would be the time to be real creative in a bad situation. I do not know how dyeing works but maybe it is reversible if the colors are pale. Im sorry OP but good luck and know that if nothing else, it will be a story that never gets old and becomes more funny as time goes on. I wish you a future of happiness.

By  jac_1964_au  |  23

Cut your losses this will end badly . If he does not know that the wedding day is for the wife and it’s the most important thing in her life, and that he should be doing everything you want to do , as he gets the benefit for the rest of his life. It’s time to move on

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It’s just as much the grooms day as it is the brides. I was just married this past weekend and I told him that I wanted him to have what he wanted for our wedding. I have three children that he has been a part of our lives for four years so we did more of a “family wedding” they were a part of the wedding and he did vows to them after we exchanged ours. We even had the cake topper with all five of us on it. I am a firm believer that men care just as much about their weddings as women do but are told to just let her have her way. I hate when people tell men to just roll over for their spouse— that isn’t a partnership or a friendship even!

By  nemcali  |  33

Your husband does not strike me as particularly smart or sensitive. The seamstress is probably mortified and you most likely feel extra stressed now. If it’s a prank, he’s a complete idiot.