By justmyluck - 26/08/2011 05:28 - Australia
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I'm sorry that happened, OP. Don't worry though, there isn't a rule against being married twice!
I don't have a problem with divorce because sometimes it's very necessary(i.e. cheating or abuse), but I do think that some people are too quick to jump straight into divorce, and marriage sometimes, whenever they hit a problem. In some cases their problems are fixable if they simply communicate. Plus, divorce is a horrible thing to not only go through yourself, but also to put your children through. It's just a sad situation.
So true, #17. I know someone that's been married three times, divorced twice and is in the middle of divorce #3. All three relationships she was married within a year. I know another girl that's married twice and both within six months of the relationship starting!
Maybe pick the person you're marrying better and don't rush into things before you're ready for them.
I do agree, but marriages don't work out by the same rules each time. A couple I know married after being together for 2 months and their marriage has so far lasted for 23 years. I'm also sure there are people who date for years and think they truly know eachother, but end up getting divorced after a year or two. OP may not have "rushed into it".