FML : Today, after 11 years together, including 8 years of engagement and 3.5 months of marriage, I found out he had sex with his ex-girlfriend on my birthday....

Today, after 11 years together, including 8 years of engagement and 3.5 months of marriage, I found out he had sex with his ex-girlfriend on my birthday. He's now leaving me and our kids to be with her because she's his "soul mate". FML

I agree, your life sucks

You deserved it

By Anonymous - / Thursday 12 April 2018 15:00 /

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Kids

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By JasonThorn | 13

#7607479 - Monday 5 March 2018 18:35

He's leaving you and the kids? Tell him he has to have a SOUL before he can have a SOULMATE.

By Akitakat | 27

#7606671 - Saturday 3 March 2018 13:22

He couldn’t say anything during the 8 years about not being happy? What a twat!

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By jbuckets_404 | 34

#7606252 - Friday 2 March 2018 12:25

Um, why did you put up w/ being engaged for 8 yrs? J/c....

jbuckets_404 | 34

#7606254 - Friday 2 March 2018 12:27

And yes, I voted in her favor. Just looking for clues/ foreboding hints to his despicable behavior is all.

aruden | 25

#7622166 - Thursday 12 April 2018 19:37

Probably in an attempt to show it was supposed to be a higher level of commitment between them.

indienerdgirl | 23

#7622832 - Saturday 14 April 2018 16:23

Maybe they at the time wanted to save up the money for a nice wedding as weddings are expensive. But if he kept pushing it off then I would've been suspicious as to why he kept pushing it off.

By DanielleinDC | 31

#7606329 - Friday 2 March 2018 15:23

I do wonder why you were engaged so long; it should have been a sign that he wasn't really into the relationship. I'm also sorry you didn't find out what a cad he is before you got married.

aruden | 25

#7622170 - Thursday 12 April 2018 19:42

It seems to be more common when couples live together and have multiple kids together they put off the formality of actually getting married. They already live the life of a married couple so it becomes less important.

By DanielleinDC | 31

#7606330 - Friday 2 March 2018 15:23

I do wonder why you were engaged so long; it should have been a sign that he wasn't really into the relationship. I'm also sorry you didn't find out what a cad he is before you got married.