Today, after 11 years together, including 8 years of engagement and 3.5 months of marriage, I found out he had sex with his ex-girlfriend on my birthday. He's now leaving me and our kids to be with her because she's his "soul mate". FML
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JasonThorn
| 18
He's leaving you and the kids? Tell him he has to have a SOUL before he can have a SOULMATE.
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Akitakat
| 31
He couldn’t say anything during the 8 years about not being happy? What a twat!
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jbuckets_404
| 38
Um, why did you put up w/ being engaged for 8 yrs? J/c....
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jbuckets_404
| 38
And yes, I voted in her favor. Just looking for clues/ foreboding hints to his despicable behavior is all.
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aruden
| 25
Probably in an attempt to show it was supposed to be a higher level of commitment between them.
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indienerdgirl
| 27
Maybe they at the time wanted to save up the money for a nice wedding as weddings are expensive. But if he kept pushing it off then I would've been suspicious as to why he kept pushing it off.
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DanielleinDC
| 32
I do wonder why you were engaged so long; it should have been a sign that he wasn't really into the relationship. I'm also sorry you didn't find out what a cad he is before you got married.
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aruden
| 25
It seems to be more common when couples live together and have multiple kids together they put off the formality of actually getting married. They already live the life of a married couple so it becomes less important.
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DanielleinDC
| 32
I do wonder why you were engaged so long; it should have been a sign that he wasn't really into the relationship. I'm also sorry you didn't find out what a cad he is before you got married.
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Akitakat
| 31
He couldn’t say anything during the 8 years about not being happy? What a twat!
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JasonThorn
| 18
He's leaving you and the kids? Tell him he has to have a SOUL before he can have a SOULMATE.
By
OnReceivingEnd
| 14
"...and that's when I shot him five times...then reloaded...and shot him five times again."
Judge: *bangs gavel* "CASE DISMISSED!"
Judge: *bangs gavel* "CASE DISMISSED!"
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Luke16eirb7deneuwn1
| 20
Sue his ass for childsupport
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LHBAIHJ1314
| 6
oh..
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jsalamo
| 22
This breaks my heart. So sorry about this, OP.
By
TheMean1
| 6
This is devastating, wtf is wrong with people ? So sad.