By Anonymous - 28/06/2014 01:02 - United States - Imperial
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You're an idiot. For all we know, she sleeps with him everyday. She might be in one of those situations where he finishes before she does, and doesn't bother to try and get her off afterwards. Why do some guys think that a vibrator is almost equivalent to cheating, but are perfectly fine with getting off to porn?
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Obviously he had an issue with it if he took it from her. its getting attention that he wants, which is fair enough. it's probably gonna please her better than he can so it's understandable if he feels threatened. I really want a vibrator since my boyfriend sucks at pleasing me but he tries so hard to make me happy and I know it would upset him if i got one. it would definitely take away from our sex life (if I was masturbating by myself all the time) and it would also make sex with him feel less pleasurable in comparison. it would be nice but we're both committed to only being sexual together. if he can resist ever masturbating without me (despite me insisting he can do it whenever he likes if he wants to) i can do this for him. We have toys which we use together and that's it.
#42 in my relationship communication is by far the greatest priority but unfortunately I just cannot get off during sex. it's not an issue of size, perhaps we're just not skillful enough and it will take time, but whatever it is my boyfriend spends every moment trying to please me and I respect him so much for that.
Every couple is different and im sure theres many guys who are happy to have their girl pleasure herself with a vibrator who have the healthiest of relationships. We work best when we put each other first in absolutely everything and obviously that means a lot of compromise but if we both try to look out for what the other person wants all the time then everyone is happy and our relationship is stronger. if he wants to only share sexual experiences together then I'm happy with that. We're both very jealous people so It works for us
HanBroman, you could suggest getting a vibrator for him to use on you during sex. I know that I can't get off from penetration, so I basically masturbate to finish after my boyfriend is done and that works well for us. (He continues to touch and kiss me when I do this). It just takes some experimenting to get it right, and I know it can be frustrating when you are a bit inexperienced. I didn't ever orgasm with my first partner.
Some girls cannot orgasm when being with their partner. However, I have actually taken sex therapy classes for fun. One suggestion is to try multiple positions. Sometimes a female cannot finish when the male is on top of her based on the size or location, but has no issues when she is on top, etc.