Dating is hell

Next!

*ding*

Get used to it OP, that's what online dating looks like.

check please

#49 when did OP state she was online dating?

Guess all he cared about was sex. Immaturity. Next.

Not necessarily. You can learn a lot from a person by asking this question.

Please elaborate? What on earth could I learn about someone by asking this question as my opening question on a first date?

Maybe the position in the relationship that they prefer to take. For instance do that prefer to be in control or be controlled. Also does that preference apply only to sex or also outside of the bedroom. Some people are different during sex compared to everyday life

No sense beating around the bush!

But beating around the bush is my favourite position!

It's amazing how many slang terms are used that sound like they have sexual meanings. "Nutcase," "cold-cock," "beating around the bush," etc.

Amazing...

Point Him Towards the Exit.

did you analyze this sentence before you wrote it?

But definitely not through the back door.

Man I'm sorry OP, you'd think he'd have a little more respect for you seeing that you are recently divorced. Drop him like it's hot, there are plenty of respectful and classy guys out there! Hope you find Mr. Right!

It's disrespectful in any situation for that to be the first question the guy asks OP in my opinion, divorce or not.

Actually what I was implying was that the guy would be over the top respectful because she's recently divorced, not that it was in anyways ok for him I even remotely ask that, cuz it def wasn't.

Whos to say the guy knew about the divorce? It could have been a blind date? Did he randomly ask "Hey, have you ever been married before?" No he asked about the sex position. Disrespectful in any situation not just recently divorced

I think you've been out of the game long enough that your douche radar is a bit off. Just re-calibrate and pick better guys, not that bottom of the barrel ass clown.

Your response was perfect xD

Huhu, I just imagined a woman saying that to a man instead, how different it would be xD

Yup double standards and whatnot

Dating has probably changed since the last time you were single. Lots of douchebags out there. Pick wisely

Welcome to the dating pool! That happens every now and then.

it happens, but don't get discouraged. there are really nice guys out there!

I swear some guys think they are the star of a cheap 80's porno I mean come on show a little dating etiquette ask how their day was then move onto the nasty! ( sarcasm before you all get upset! )