Weird flex, but OK

By Anonymous - 10/11/2019 20:00

Today, I asked the girl who has a crush on me if she was autistic. She replied without hesitation, "I can be whatever you want me to be." FML
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safffybumbum 6

Firstly why would you ask her that? Secondly autistic people tend to say the truth and don't necessarily know how to flirt and lastly why tf have you posted a new FML, it seems to me you're an attention seeker and both of your posts never happened as you posted in the space of 2 weeks

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DoctorPALO 14

You are both ignorant. I don't understand why everyone has to use the words autism and autistic to ask someone if they are stupid, dumb, or ignorant. Many people on the autism spectrum are highly intelligent. The fact that people call one another "autistic" as an insult only shows their complete ignorance.

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ThatOneLonelyAsian 31

I have a disability and I can tell you that autistic/autism is nothing to be ashamed of saying, i know many autistic people are really clever same with my disability, i have a learning disability also and people assume I'm dumb and the funny thing is when people don't know about my disability and call me retard but i tell them I have a disability it's so sad how their mood/actions change and say sorry

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kujiens101 24

It sounds like you’re just a bully making fun of a girl who, at best, was nervous and, at worst, suffers from a neurological disorder that she will struggle with for the rest of her life.

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ThatOneLonelyAsian 31

I have a disability myself and I'd rather someone ask me if I have a disability instead of just calling me a retard and then when i say yes i am, they say they're sorry, there's nothing wrong with being a retard but calling someone it without knowing they're one frustrates me, no one should use it as a derogatory term!

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ThatOneLonelyAsian 31

OP here, i just want to say I have a disability and if someone asked me if I'm disabled I'd say yes because it's nothing to be ashamed off so therefore shouldn't be seen as disrespectful or ignorant! The reason this is an FML is because I was asking her and she downright flirted with me, take a hint b**** I'm not interested!

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Iamthebanzai22 20

Well, if her crush on you is unwanted, there are sensitive/diplomatic ways to let her know you are not interested. If you really wondered and you asked in a positive manner then good for you. If not, that is probably the reason why you are the lonely asian.

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RebeccaMcQ 15

You can't go up and ask someone "are you disabled?" You're a rude f***

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ThatOneLonelyAsian 31

people have asked me and I'm perfectly fine with it, what I'm not fine with is when someone calls me a retard then i say I am one but they say 'sorry' wouldn't they say sorry if I wasn't disabled?

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ojosRojos 28

Why would you ask someone that? Considering your bad question, you deserved a much worse response than the one you got

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ThatOneLonelyAsian 31

I'm disabled myself and I'd rather someone ask me if I was rather then call me a retard then say sorry when i tell them I am slow, wouldn't they have said sorry if I wasn't disabled?

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Hannah Bassett 13

Why would you ask that? That is just being an asshole

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