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By kggggg - 12/08/2010 11:00 - United States

Today, while at my friend's house, I noticed her brother had a bit of an accent. I laughingly said "Is it me or does your little brother have an accent?" She stared and replied with "No, he has autism." FML

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Today, my boyfriend came over to meet my family. When I told him I had an autistic brother before he came in, he immediately broke up with me because he claimed autism is another word for overprotective. I've been dating an idiot. FML

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By apparently_disabled - 17/04/2015 06:24 - Canada - Victoria

Today, I was trying to make a good impression with my fiancé's friends. After a few hours, I thought all was going well. As I walked to the washroom, I heard, "So what disability does she have? No one can be like that without something wrong in their brain." FML

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By Rmglrsm - 23/06/2016 02:21

Today, at work, I was helping someone who really sounded like she had a Boston accent. So, I asked her where she was from. She has never been out of state. Turns out she has a speech impediment. FML

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By notautistic - 26/09/2014 01:15 - United States - Minneapolis

Today, marks yet again another day that I've been asked if I'm autistic. No, that's just my Korean accent. Apparently I look "too white" to have one. FML

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By Badatlife - 23/06/2014 16:19 - Australia - Kellyville

Today, a guy at work pulled me aside to tell me that I probably shouldn't be working a job where I have to interact with customers, because of my autism. I don't have autism. FML

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By Anonymous - 01/10/2022 21:30

Today, my therapist mentioned we should look into the possibility of me being autistic. When telling my boyfriend what she'd said, he replied, “I don’t think you’re autistic, just damaged.” FML

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By Anonymous - 26/11/2013 13:07 - United States

Today, I went to pick up my little brother from his friend's house. When I got there, he ran off screaming that he didn't know me. His friend's parents believed him. FML

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By anonymus - 18/08/2009 16:33 - United States

Today, I asked a woman where her beautiful accent was from. The woman stared at me for a while. Then her daughter told me that the reason her mother talked like that was because she had a stroke a few months ago. FML

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Thursday 12 August 2010 19:19

Everyone has an accent.

callmecourtney 3

Thursday 12 August 2010 19:32

Alright, op, let me be the sympathetic one: if an "accent" is all you noticed, chances are that her brother is a high-functioning autistic. Autism varies from person to person. My step-mother works in SPED and gets a lot of autistic students in her classes. Some are high-functioning - I wouldn't have known there was anything different about them right away. Others have autism so severe that they can't make eye-contact or speak. My own step-brother is autistic and falls somewhere between the two. You did nothing offensive, you just felt a little humble afterward. That being said; My little brother and I were born and raised in Texas and he has a Boston accent.

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0xXprincessXx0 0

Thursday 12 August 2010 20:27

its your own fault bitch.

onnielief 4

Thursday 12 August 2010 20:28

Sounds like your "friend" really is more like an aquaintance. She should have told you she has an autistic brotger to prevent such awkwardness!!!!

AutumnGirlSoup 0

Thursday 12 August 2010 20:39

Agreed. I know I always warn people if I have a brotger in my house.

OochenSnoochen 15

Thursday 12 August 2010 21:11

it is brotger season.

onnielief 4

Thursday 12 August 2010 21:38

Very witty reply, so I made a typo. For those with an IQ under 65, I meant brother. Satisfied?

Dolfyutt 3

Thursday 12 August 2010 21:41

I hate brotgers. especially during their mating season when they start destroying ear drums within a 200 mile radius with their mating call 0.o

roflinyourwaffle 0

Thursday 12 August 2010 21:49

88, so you made a typo BECAUSE people are making witty comments? how kind of you! well, since it seems that i have an IQ which does not exceed 65, i suppose i'll go study some more on punctuations and correct spelling. by the way, does anyone know a good spot for brotger hunting? i've heard they gather at the peak of mt. fuji during thunderstorms.

roflinyourwaffle 0

Thursday 12 August 2010 22:26

you, sir, have just won +10 internetz.

hedgehogs 0

Thursday 12 August 2010 20:31

I just don't see that you did anything wrong here. And yes, it would have been best if your friend explained beforehand. Given that she didn't, she should be prepared for such reasonable questions.

CAbullet_Caitlin 0

Thursday 12 August 2010 20:40

goodd job

dezg1 0

Thursday 12 August 2010 20:44

I don't see the FML. You noticed that his speech pattern was different, and you politely asked if he had an accent. I would doubt that she took any real offense...although maybe she was miffed that her best friend didn't know her brother was autistic? Anyhow, unless you were all like "What's wrong with your brother? He talks wierd!", then THAT would be an FML - and you would deserve it!

plopurlife 0

Thursday 12 August 2010 20:47

that kid is going to design some kind of device to have you killed for making fun of him. they are wicked smart ya know

icygubler 0

Monday 11 July 2011 1:19

yes we are

ibitehard 9

Thursday 12 August 2010 20:47

How is this an fml??? you are an idiot op YDI

3mi1y_ 16

Thursday 12 August 2010 20:55

smooooth..

xxxkittykatxxx 0

Thursday 12 August 2010 20:56

>.> I have a friend with Asperger's who talks a little different. I think it's adorable :) She gets a little squeeky sometimes, but it's the kind of squeeky that makes you want to hug her. (But she's not big on the hugs, which I respect.) I remember the first time I met her. :) She helped me make spinach artichoke dip :D >.> But I forgot the spinach...