By lifestinks - 05/04/2009 04:17 - Canada
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I can't stand that people act like she's committed some horrible sin for not being a size 2. If it's easy for all of you to be skinny, that's really awesome, but for some of us it's a real struggle. I've been fighting to stay a size 8 since I was in my early teens, because I just lost the genetic lottery and got a sucky metabolism. I don't stuff my face (I actually also have IBS, so I can't eat very greasy or rich things), and I'm very sensitive about because I can't stand when I'm feeling down about my weight and people act like I've made some conscious decision to not be a stick. That's not how it works. So shut the fuck up. And OP, this guy is an ass, dump him. I'm lucky enough to have a cute boyfriend who doesn't like women with the physique of small boys. The one really awesome thing about not being a size 2: I have boobs. :D
That's when you respond with, "Actually, I meant dye-it, as in my hair. But you're right, I DO need to lose weight - about 250* lbs of it. In other words: it's over. Get.out." *or whatever boyfriend's weight is
ouch, thats mean. even if you did say diet, he should accept you, not recomended a goal for you.
He might have misunderstood you, correct him. Just to get something off my chest, why is it that you men go for skinny women with small ass's, legs for days and big boobs? (no offense ladies) Can a man out there please answer me that, truthfuly. I thought all women fat or thin could satisfy your needs, you make it sound like fat women can't do anything right except stuff food down our throats. Can someone tell me if there are men out there that don't go for looks, that will go for a womans personality?
there are men out there who go for bigger women or pansexuals whom just are interested in a person's personality. however, in general in the average Joe prefers fit women over bigger ladies because the media and cues from growing up taught them that skinny women are beautiful. however, I too am in the category even though I'm asexual. I find fit girls on average more beautiful than big girls. with that said big girls can have cute faces just a slightly subpar body type of my preference. side note fit girls don't always not have an ass. a lot of fit girls have got nice ones.