By papersofdivorce - 31/01/2013 17:08 - Peru - Lima
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This is one of the few times, in which the comment dump her is acceptable. Judging by your username, the phrase also works.
"Accidentally" leave a browsing history for a divorce attorney ;)
Surprising her is a really bad idea. He should ask her about it without jumping to conclusions. Perhaps she thinks he has the addiction because he wants it more. Or perhaps she was searching it for her friend. There are plausible scenarios that do not equal cheating and hitting her with divorce papers unexpectedly could seriously compromise an otherwise good relationship.
Maybe she was just looking for a friend... Give her the benefit of doubt...
I didn't think of it that way! You really turned this into a mystery. If they've been married for months you would think they'd be having sex every few days, or even every day. But since they've only had sex a few times he probably begs her for sex... Which could be the reason to the search history! You have earned the Sherlock Holmes trophy.
This was my train of thought initially. But I pity her (and the man, by proxy) if she thinks that having sex twice in four months is excessive. That's just weird. In related news, having wildly opposite sex drives can make or break a relationship, so it might be worth looking into if that is truly the problem.
Don't know enough about Peru, but in some cultures the male libido is much more energized that the womans. It may very well be that 1) They didn't have sex before marriage 2) He's only just now finding out that she's just not that into sex, 3) They've only had sex twice, but he's been asking incessantly so she thinks he's addicted
some kinds of sex addicts have issues with having sex with their "legitimate" partner. They'll go have all kinds of risky sex with strangers, but then go home to their spouse and be all like; "I'm not in the mood". It's seriously fucked up, and frankly - divorce that shit.