By Nobody - 27/11/2009 21:39 - United States
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dancingyrlie, That's such BS to say, "if it's not working, leave." There are all kinds of ways for a marriage to be broken -- some are fixable and some are not. One spouse can tell the other directly what they demand to stay in the marriage, and it can still go unheard. When a counselor gets involved those demands get taken more seriously and you can get definitive answers as to whether they will be met or not. If you can reach an agreement, you can have a good marriage going forward. If not, you know that you gave it your best, and that ought to help you in court. I also disagree that no one deserves to be cheated on. I think there are extreme examples where that should be amended to "Almost no one deserves to be cheated on."
I would just like to take this moment to inform everyone to IGNORE #3. This person has clearly never been in a marriage and is very ignorant about the topic. Good for you for getting help when it wasn't working. I'm so sorry that the doctor you went to was a complete idiot and did such a horrible thing. I hope everything works out okay in the end. But again; if your marriage is having troubles, get help and fix it! Especially if you have kids!
That actually sounds like a pretty good plan. OP should sue, get that guy fired and his license revoked, then check to see if he's married as well. If so, you've got one more life to ruin before you're on your marry way with a new wad of money in your pocket. Not only does him and your wife cheating effect him, it will make divorce court swing way in your favor.
He fucked you both simultaneously. You financially and her literally. Or in the ass.