By Anonymous - 16/07/2009 05:51 - United States
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Well, the wife had an affair while she was on holiday with the child. It's really her fault for not putting the child first. OP's entitled to a bit of sweet revenge. Yeah, post em online, but do something else too. EVERYONE does the whole posting online thing when they get photos of a cheating bf/gf- it's really not creative.
Divorce skrews kids up. They do badly in school and do things to make their parents upset, to get back at them for disrupting the house hold. Children need stability. Bouncing back from mom to dad, every day, week, month, year fucks kids up. They get a sense of not being wanted, and they always feel like it is there fault. It is a traumatic experince that causes trust issues in the future.
Just thought I'd tell you, my parents divorced and I graduated at the top of my class, I'm halfway through university on my way to becoming a doctor (family practitioner actually) and I've never gotten in a big fight with either one of my parents. So...don't try and sound all high and mighty, because you just aren't correct.
Toss me in with the successful child of divorce crowd. Graduated from high school and college with high honors. Second in my class in graduate school. Great job, great wife, no more screwed up mentally than the rest of humanity. Divorce is hard on kids, but it's not an automatic fail. Take your stupid generalizations elsewhere.
102 - A) it's "screws." Skrew is not a word. B) There is little research to prove your point. Many children of divorce become well-adjusted adults though it may be traumatic for the kids in the beginning, but they adjust. What would be traumatic for kids is having parents constantly fighting, or remaining in emotionally, verbally, or physically abusive relationships. THAT "skrews" kids up.
In reply to #102 If a parents cheated or there are good reasons to get a divorce then most of the time it is best for the kid for the parents to part! my parents stayed together for 15 years unhappily "for the kids" and it did more damage then good. By the time i was ten i knew that my father was a cheating lying a**hole!!! And that my mother was weak for putting up with him! Years later I love my mother but have no contact with my father because of all that and had they not stayed together maybe life wouldn't have been so bad and i would still love both of my parents! Oh and as for the comment about the kids doing bad because of it. Most all kids act up, they will find a reason but with loving parents, together or not, can get their kids threw it. As far as finding the pictures, if you get revenge remember that could follow you into court! So whatever you do make sure it wont cost you your two year old. Im sorry she is a cheating ho!
My parents are still together(and have been for 26 years) but my boyfriend's family is a wreck... his parents never were married and don't even like each other, but they still all live in the same house. Basically his mom is very mentally unstable and his dad is so stressed sometimes he just loses his temper. So yeah, I'm gonna say sometimes kids are better off with only one parent.
102: I was five years old when I saw a classmate crying. I asked what was wrong and another girl told me his parents were divorcing. I asked what that meant, and she told me. I asked, "So why is he crying?" I lived in hope from that moment on that MY parents would divorce. They didn't. Result? I was homeless by 16, never finished school and it took years for me to trust a man. Sometimes, NOT divorcing screws kids up.
what you need to do is get a divorce and show those pictures to the judge and get full custody of your child. that's the best revenge you can possibly get. tell the judge she's way to unstable and incapable of taking care of a child responsibly and the kid will be all yours. you win. sorry about the betrayal. best of luck to you
102.... You REALLYYYYY should have kept your mouth shut!! Lolll you're getting hit from every angle; and they have a point! If the parents are still responsible adults and aren't junkies then the child has an extremely high chance of turning out well. Actually, even if the parents are junkies... Some kids learn from their mistakes and do not allow failure to be an option in life.
FYL, tell her to put on a big vacation slideshow and slip in the recovered pictures.
YES. Insert them in the slideshow in the order they were taken. Not only will everyone see what a horrible person she is, but she'll also think she's going nuts and somehow forgot to delete the photos. But please, don't stop there with the revenge. I'm sure an intelligent person such as yourself can squeeze a bit more humiliation out of this for her.
who ever presses YDI is an ass hole, it's not your fault she cheated on you. like #1 said, post those online.
yeah I don't think that's the case. I posted a FML and had some rude, odd, or cruel people YDI me, but not in the ratio that many people on here get. Keep in mind, there are a lot of fuckers on this planet. And OP, yeah your wife is one of them. Hope she's the ex now or in the process of becoming the ex. FYL you poor bastard.