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Yet again? You guys need to talk this out, or get help with a marriage counselor. Both of you sound unhappy in your relationship.

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Maybe the two years have been bad for other reasons. I was miserable for most of the first year of our marriage, but it wasn't my husband's fault. We had moved to a very small town over an hour from anywhere bigger, I had so many problems getting a license in this stupid state I had to let go of my CDL, I was jobless for a long time, and I had no friends because this town is one big clique. I got depressed. OP, he married you for a reason and I'm sure you two still love each other. If you aren't

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There definitely could be other reasons, death of a loved one, unemployment, lost a house, just to name a few major things that could make a person miserable. OP should ask him to explain his feelings.

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Yet again? You guys need to talk this out, or get help with a marriage counselor. Both of you sound unhappy in your relationship.

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I agree they definitely need to talk about it before jumping to divorce. My mom and dad read a book when they were first married called "His Needs Her Needs" which helped them understand each other better so they have been able to cater to each other for the 28 years they've been together. My fiancé and I were on the brink of breaking up and my mom suggested we read that together. We did and talked our problems out and changed our behavior a little bit and we haven't had a problem sin

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That's much more challenging and expensive when married. They could try something more like counseling, that may be more productive.

It's good that you found out now, assuming a divorce will follow, before you two had kids together. Then again you can ask him what's wrong and try to work things out with him.

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Who said they don't have kids? If they've consummated the marriage there is always a chance for babies.

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People also may have sex (and children) before they are married... I know this is shocking news so take a deep breath.

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People may even get married and not have kids right away or ever! By choice, even! I know, I know...I've just blown your mind. I'll give you a few minutes to pick up the pieces.

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Yes, just go down to the husband store and exchange yours for a better model because yours is clearly not working quite right.

Couldn't have said it more clearly, he's unhappy and talking about won't change his mind since he's been like this for two years

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Or better yet, no husband at all. But really, OP, talk with your husband, although he may just want out. I sure hope you two didn't have any kids.

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