By U_U - 20/10/2013 19:20 - United States
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Hey, good thing it's an easy one, if you decide to indulge him. You can just take the belly off when you're done. Unlike with a real pregnancy.
The thing is though, even though I agree it's hardly the worst fetish out there, I wouldn't want to find out about it only AFTER I got married. Even if a couple decides to wait until after marriage to actually have sex, they should still be honest to each other about any weird shit they're into. I know nearly everyone has some weird turn-ons or fetishes or fantasies of some kind, but it's never something you should hide until after you've tied the knot. I'd be annoyed about that if I were OP. Also to all the people saying OP's hubby should stop watching porn or hentai, I doubt all or even the majority of fetishes are 'introduced' to people. I have a fantasy of my own which 'started' when I was about 5 years old - it wasn't sexual then, just something that secretly fascinated me as a child and as I grew older it developed into a sexual fantasy without the aid of a single porn video. Jussayin.
#80, you just said you wouldn't want to find out after tying the knot but you also said you DEVELOPED the fetish? Maybe OP's husband did too. Maybe over time he has grown sexually fond of a pregnant belly and wanted to share this new found thought with his wife. I mean, you said yourself something happened with you from the age of five and it turned sexual. Maybe OP's husband has always found pregnant women attractive but only recently started having sexual feelings toward them. :)
#94 When I say 'as I grew older' I meant from say 5 years old to 13 or 14 years old - as soong as hormones kicked in and sex ed and all that crap, it turned sexual. It's not something that you normally discuss in public or with friends so I don't know what it's like for many other people, but a couple of my exes did have fetishes that they revealed to me and according to them it also 'developed' in a similar way to mine. I do know that many sexual fetishes that are classified as disorders in the DSM (e.g. ones where people can only get off by exposing themselves to random people or secretly watching other people have sex) generally also follow the same pattern, so I figured that was how these things normally worked. I guess it's possible that OP's husband was a 'late bloomer', or got married very young, I just didn't think either of those possibilities were likely. If he only realised the fetish after the marriage then obviously what I said earlier is completely irrelevant.
You know, there's another way of satisfying his fetish...you know...you know... Ok, it's for you to actually get pregnant. For fuck's sake, do I have to spell everything out for you?