Alexa, play "Confusion" by New Order

By Anonymous - 16/09/2019 02:00

Today, I found out my husband has been telling everyone he doesn't want a baby. He has been telling me he does. We have been trying for months. I'm now pregnant and confused. FML
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BorderCount 5

You're not confused, you're in trouble. Sounds like your husband has been lying to you.

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Seeya55 31

Or, to know, TALK to him about it first. I feel like every answer could be solved with Communication/counseling when it comes to issues in the marriage. If he really doesn't, and he was lying to you just to keep you happy, then move forward with different plans. Holy hell people say DROP THEM so fast. They're not casually dating, they're married and may have been for years!

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BorderCount 5

You're not confused, you're in trouble. Sounds like your husband has been lying to you.

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Tiffani Carter 6

If he was an active participant in the “trying”, it would seem that he was lying to everyone else. Otherwise, cut your losses and leave him now. If he doesn’t want a baby, don’t let him be involved and have him end up resenting the child.

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Seeya55 31

Or, to know, TALK to him about it first. I feel like every answer could be solved with Communication/counseling when it comes to issues in the marriage. If he really doesn't, and he was lying to you just to keep you happy, then move forward with different plans. Holy hell people say DROP THEM so fast. They're not casually dating, they're married and may have been for years!

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blondie45 21

Agreed. And there is a child involved.

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stormy0307 16

Sit him down and have a calm but serious conversation about it with him.

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AmbrosiaFan 18

Or actually talk to husband to clear it up.. "Hey honey people are saying you don't want one even though we are trying for one and by the way we ARE expecting"...

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Lora Wood 11

Oh well. Little boy better man up a bit.

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Compass5000 5

Honestly, it's smart to be conflicted about having kids. No doubt he'll step up when it's time.

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