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You're not confused, you're in trouble. Sounds like your husband has been lying to you.

If he was an active participant in the “trying”, it would seem that he was lying to everyone else. Otherwise, cut your losses and leave him now. If he doesn’t want a baby, don’t let him be involved and have him end up resenting the child.

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You're not confused, you're in trouble. Sounds like your husband has been lying to you.

If he was an active participant in the “trying”, it would seem that he was lying to everyone else. Otherwise, cut your losses and leave him now. If he doesn’t want a baby, don’t let him be involved and have him end up resenting the child.

Or, to know, TALK to him about it first. I feel like every answer could be solved with Communication/counseling when it comes to issues in the marriage. If he really doesn't, and he was lying to you just to keep you happy, then move forward with different plans. Holy hell people say DROP THEM so fast. They're not casually dating, they're married and may have been for years!

Agreed. And there is a child involved.

Sit him down and have a calm but serious conversation about it with him.

Or actually talk to husband to clear it up.. "Hey honey people are saying you don't want one even though we are trying for one and by the way we ARE expecting"...

Lora Wood 11

Oh well. Little boy better man up a bit.

Honestly, it's smart to be conflicted about having kids. No doubt he'll step up when it's time.