More of a celebration not a fml.

I had to make an account just to comment on this. Here's the thing. I agree with your girlfriend that sex while one person is drunk and the other is sober is rape, especially if the sober person intentionally got the other person drunk so they'd agree to sex. I also agree, that that means she is NOT exempt from this rule, she raped you. But I do think there can be ways between couples so that it is not rape. I made an agreement with my boyfriend that I do not want to do anything new while I am drunk, so he knows what I have consented to while sober on behalf of my drunk self. There was a woman on imgur who said that her boyfriend "only agreed" to anal while he was drunk. In my opinion that is clearly rape, as she admitted that he would not agree to it while sober and so she waits until he is drunk to ask.

it's called feminism because it's the feminine traits that are shamed.

Well, she's right--to a degree. Not all drunk sex is non-consensual, but not all drunk sex is (or can be) consensual. Sex between two partners who regularly engage in sex is probably not an issue. But if you have sex with someone (female OR male) who is too drunk to understand what is going on, who they're with, or where they are, that's pretty obviously rape. An easy test--if you have to undress them and do sex TO them (as in you're doing most of the work because the other person can't coordinate themselves), they can hardly form a sentence and/or can't stand/sit on their own, then yeah, it's probably rape--especially if you never had sex with the person before. I mean, if you've never had sex with the person before, why would you pick a time when they're extremely drunk to be your first time--unless that's the only time you can get them to say "yes," which is then obviously rape. Again--this goes for both women AND men. Anyone can be a rapist, especially when alcohol is involved. Too often people assume a man can't or won't say no, there as assuming he can't be raped. But he can be.

This is exactly why I'm antifeminazi.

I can relate, in a way... calling a girlfriend out on her BS, no matter how hypocritical she's being, is pointless because they'll never see why they're wrong

In the state of oklahoma, if you the male were drunk, you could still rape her. Stupid huh?

feminism at its best.

I am not sure about most anything.