By notacaveman - 16/04/2013 13:27 - Netherlands
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She sounds like a bitch anyway. Plenty of other women out there.
It was a bitchy thing to do #2 but you know how some girls can be VERY emotional at times? what if she did feel bad about it and was ..I guess "internally beating herself up " over it ? therefore wasn't even thinking logically when she said what she did to OP you know..one of those people who always do something dumb than regret it days later..? i can't believe Im even trying to make sense out of it for her but idk.. either way what she did was wrong. 1. cheating than 2. getting mad because he forgave her. So either way I agree..very bitchy. As for OP..keep your head up ! I once forgave my ex for cheating after he cried about it to me and I guess he mistook me forgiving him for weakness becauae he didn't really .."change". So be glad. you were the bigger person here OP. You're seem reasonable so hopefully you find someone who can appreciate that !
Destroying things was just an example. Respect can be described differently. As in being a synonym of admiration, or simply being considerate. I'm guessing you're talking about the first, while I'm talking about the latter. Everyone should be considerate of everyone, automatically.
She did what you should have fine and ended the relationship. You should thank her.
To clarify further, sometimes it's hard to end a relationship, even when your know you should. OP wasn't at fault for his emotional predicament, and it's unfortunate that it was his girlfriend who did the dumping rather than him, but in the end he's better off without her, regardless of who dumped who.
10, forgive me for slip ups, but why should he thank her? They only knew the relationship should end after she confessed. Plus, the guy was forgiving her. She was being a stuck up bitch. Please, though. If I missed some valuable info in your comments, I am sorry.