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By painfulintercourse / Monday 22 November 2010 19:36 / Canada
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By  perdix  |  29

If I were your doctor, I'd tell you just to stick to oral and anal. Let me know if your national health care system up there covers physician-prescribed dildos.

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  free2speak  |  14

Wow. I didn't know that was even possible. I always thought that the muscles in vagina can stretch and contract enough to fit an average penis. I guess you could try to masturbate using your fingers and take it slowly from there because if you can't handle an average penis then the vibrator won't be much help and I am assuming you had been having sex with lube because if not, that would explain why it hurts. I know when I started it was awfully painful and I dont produce much fluids so I had to use lube an the lube just made it sticky and even more painful so now we just use spit. I hate it but to b honest it is a lot more natural and surprisingly cleaner than using lube.

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  torrance1221  |  4

yeah, sometimes the pain comes from a swollen cervix as a result of an infection. when something bumps into it, it hurts. a lot! definitely get checked out by another doctor.

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  DjeePee  |  24

A dildo? Your doctor advised a dildo to loosen up? I don't know why, but I think you really should go to a professional. A real one. If intercourse is painful, than you have a serious problem that can't be cured with a dildo. Dyspareunia, I think. A dildo...djeezes.

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  BetsyLa  |  0

i was told the same thing by my doctor over 5 yrs ago. I'm a petit person, I'm 4'11. (so maybe all my orifices are small)... I know for me, sex with my husband was painful for years. we tried lots of lube, different positions and toys. truthfully it only got better after i had a vaginal birth with our daughter.

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  bittersweets  |  2

Why not try the lube and dildo suggestion? It's not something dangerous where you really should get a second opinion. Just try it and if nothing changes, go for another opinion.

By  tktom7  |  6

pics or it dident happen

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  seanj  |  0

how the fuck does this apply to the post?! if you wanna see some pictures of something that's hard to believe, try looking at ur family album

By  WhatTheFuq  |  0

lol I like this doctor!

By  perdix  |  29

If I were your doctor, I'd tell you just to stick to oral and anal. Let me know if your national health care system up there covers physician-prescribed dildos.

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  cufaoil  |  11

did you miss 13's post regarding the possibility of the pain being a symptom of something more serious? you fail for not recognising that

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  cufaoil  |  11

for something like that, unless those have already been ruled out, a second opinion would be a good idea... there are doctors out there that are not thorough enough, and make the wrong diagnoses.... I had glandular fever years ago (mono for those not familiar with the term) and my family doctor told me it was just the flu, after doing a white cell count blood test.... the university doctor also did a blood test, but it wasn't for a white cell count.... I did indeed have glandular fever.... Some doctors will be very thorough, and others just take the face value... It's not always clear at first, which is which

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