By Justme - 20/02/2011 12:23 - United States
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Sucks to be you. Oh well, find someone who doesn't just want you for sex.
What the **** do you expect OP... you have sex with people you're not serious with and yet you expect maturity? He probably got with you for the sex and you probably already knew that and it just sucks to admit that you're a two bit *****. Maybe you should wait till you're nearly engaged next time before sleeping around, or sleep around and don't expect more of men. Say what you want about this comment; "assumptions, it's not the 19th century, people have sex before marriage, etc etc" but this is the ****ing truth about what happens and it's due to those things. There's no getting around it; if you closed your legs a bit more, you wouldn't be in this sort of situation.
#146 you can't make broad statements like that. you don't know anything about their relationship. maybe she thought they were serious. maybe he was her first. you just assume that she sleeps around. kinda says more about you than it does about her. and what does being engaged or even married have to do with anything? you can be fully committed to someone and not be married. her boyfriend is a jerk and yeah, she messed up for picking a jerk. but the fact that she already had sex with him is pretty irrelevant to the fact that he's a jerk. btw OP, your boyfriend is a jerk. he's probably always been a jerk and he's most likely going to stay a jerk. save yourself future heartache dump him.
As soon as you heal up, injure his man parts. I think that's only fair. Then ignore him for six weeks.
34, seeing as how she is only worth as a vagina to her bf, it would suck for him not to be able to have sex with her if he got injured once she healed. On top of that, OP being with him the whole time during recovery, essentially teasing him, would be the perfect way to get back at that douche of a "boyfriend".
48, I'm sure you understood it was a joke but let's look into this. You think it's best for the OP to have to wait to have sex three months providing she is faithful to this asshole boyfriend? And I don't know of any guy that would stay with a girl after she purposely hurts his man parts. (:
that's what happens to girls with no personality. OP maybe you should learn how to hold a conversation.
And you're still calling him your boyfriend? Tell me, why exactly haven't you dumped him yet? He obviously doesn't care about you, so why do you still care about him? This might sound harsh, but really, don't put yourself through the pain.