By Winx - 16/03/2012 07:13 - United States

Today, my dad informed me that my prom dress makes me look chubby from the side, gives me "back fat", and that I wouldn't want to go to prom looking like that. I tried to ignore his hurtful comments and tell myself I was beautiful. Then the clasp broke. FML
I agree, your life sucks 30 324
You deserved it 11 702

Same thing different taste

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Maybe you should listen to your father's advice for a change instead of categorically ignoring him just because it makes you feel better. He could've just said "DAAAAAMN!" But it sounds more like he was trying to be helpful rather than hurtful.

Idonebeenhad 17

Girl: Does this dress make me look fat? Guy: Uhh no it's fine. Girl: STOP LYING TO ME Guy: Okay, a little Girl: WHY WOULD YOU SAY THAT, OH MY GOD I'M NEVER GONNA TALK TO YOU AGAIN

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americananarchy 3

Well, some peoples true beauty is on the inside.

Parents know best, unless they don't.

Haha, me being a Russian, I would have to agree.

Maybe you need to lose some weight now, but im sure you are fine as you are and just got got the wrong size dress.

YDI for taking offense instead of listening to warnings. Nobody meant to hurt your feelings. The fact is that you have a problem you should solve. Lying to yourself and telling yourself that everything is fine doesn't make the problems magically disappear. “Criticism may not be agreeable, but it is necessary. It fulfils the same function as pain in the human body. It calls attention to an unhealthy state of things.” - Winston Churchill

I know a few people who buy clothes a size too small so they feel thin, but it just looks SO much worse. Even girls who are thin will look chunky if they are squeezing into a size too small. That's what causes a lot of thin girls to have muffin top.

That's why I have a problem with seeing low rise jeans on people. They make virtually everyone that wears them look like they have a beer gut(it may be small but it is there). Unless you work out all the time they just do not look right on most people. Even people who are really over weight look can look very polished and beautiful if they have bought the correct sized clothes. It's all about the confidence they have in knowing they are big and not trying to pass it off as anything else. Despite everything how much we weigh for most people(I know a few have something genetic going on) is a choice. If your going to be big at least own it.

chels1994 11

Well you are beautiful. Everyone is. However, you can still be beautiful in a larger size dress (: