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StoryOfTheYear: Baustigt was neither bitching about it nor being a hypocrite. He was merely pointing out that FearShrine was threadjacking. Baustigt: Threadjacking under the first comment is a normal occurrence now. In fact, when I was still The_Hitdude, I did it couple times when I was a new member. It's annoying, but the usual now.
66- Threadjacking, in my view anyways, is any comment posted under an original comment not related to that comment. Replying to someone who is threadjacking by saying "You're threadjacking" doesn't make you an FML cop immune to the boundaries of threadjacking. Your comment is still no more related to the original comment than they were. Again that's just my definition.
I raise my hand and call myself a twat. I apologize, after thinking for more than a second about how threads work outside of FML I see that I was a dumbass in my thought process, I accept thumbs down on this. Thanks for getting what few gears I have on in my head moving.
Why's that? Every time a guy breaks up with his girlfriend he's branded the asshole, you only know as much as OP has told you. If he waited til after the cruise you can be sure OP would have posted another FML along the lines of "omg my boyfriend just strung me along for 2 weeks on a cruise and then broke up with me when it was done" either way the boyfriend would be the bad guy. There's no good time to break up with someone, it's a crappy thing for both people involved and if you actually thought about it instead of jumping on the "hes an asshole bandwagon" there must have been a good reason for him to break up with her. I doubt OP is entirely blameless.
It's got nothing to do with just wanting to break up. You don't plan a trip with someone then tell them you want to break up with them right before the trip and then tell them you want to go together on the trip just to save money. Stop trying to be hipster and jump on the "I'm so different to all you conformists wagon"
53 and 57 I agree with you both. He shouldn't be branded an asshole for ending an unhappy relationship. And there's also no right time to break up with someone but there are definitely better times to do it. For example a week before the trip I'm sure he already had an idea he didn't want to be with the chick anymore, but decided to stick with it to make it on the cruise. Or after the cruise that way there would be no awkward moments and the OP enjoyed herself, I'm sure their probably sharing a room since when they planned to go on the cruise they were together. What makes him an asshole is the fact that he's being selfish and inconsiderate to OPs feelings. Who wants to go on a trip with someone who they cared for but that just broke up with them? He probably broke up with her right before the trip to be able to hook with other girls. Thats what is so messed up about it.
I'm not jumping on any bandwagon I'm actually using my brain here, you should try it. A cruise isn't something you book a week in advance, if you want to go on a cruise you plan to do so months in advance. So if you book a cruise months beforehand and then something goes wrong in the relationship a week before, it ISN'T always the mans fault as much as half of the women on here would like to think. Just because I don't have the same opinion as you doesn't make me a hipster, look up what a hipster really is before you make yourself look like a stupid asshole.
No, I agreed with you up until the last part and then you just pissed me off. What about OP's post told you any evidence that the guy wanted to get with other girls? Stop assuming shit and blaming guys for stuff that you have no clue about, what if OP was a complete psycho bitch and he had no choice but to break up with her? A cheater is the worst kind of person, so don't brand people as 'cheaters' unless you know the whole story.
You could look at it as a blessing. He doesn't want to be with her but is still willing to go on a trip with her, she must not have done something terribly horrible! She could take this cruise to maybe remind him of why they were together! Maybe after spending a bunch of time together in a romantic setting he may change his mind about the break up. If I were in the position it's better to know before hand, so I had a chance to try and work it out!
Well just ignore him and have fun making new friends on trip then, or if it really bothers you don't go. Either way go out and have some fun! :)
Do not give him any while your away, he sounds like a prick anyway. Your probably better off without him :(
Hmm just find a way to prevent him from coming to the cruise with you! Pretend they have changed the dates or give him some sleeping tablets the day before leaving so that he will not wake up in time for the departure!
Just find a hot guy on the cruise and flaunt that you're having a good time no matter how much of a douche bag your ex is.
Yeah be a dick to the person who took you on the cruise, I'm sure being a complete bitch will solve the problem. If you're that worked up about it don't go? He can just bring a friend. The guy is always the asshole right. Girls are just as mean as guys... In my experience even worse.
I dated a girl almost 2 years i have pretty well experience you asshole. I hate you people assume that the person making the FML is the person who got fucked over. I'll play along, maybe she is a crazy bitch and puts everything the way that makes her look defenseless? Maybe just made it up because she is an attention whore? Or maybe you're right, but see what assuming does? Bring up a bunch of bullshit. Judgemental scrubs. Thumb me down if you are an assuming piece of shit. :)