By apparentlyhesbusy - 23/11/2009 05:09 - United States
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OP, how about we make sure it isn't his sister or mother before we start jumping to conclusions. For all we know, there was an unsceduled, family event that they had to do RIGHT THEN...or else, and he couldn't tell you flat out. Go to his house anyway under the excuse "I didn't know what you wanted me to do, so I kept coming anyway" and make sure he's really cheating on you before you start flying off handles.
You don't necessarily know he's cheating, though it is highly probable that is what he was doing. Why he would have a girl round knowing you're coming is beyond me.
I always have girls around when my girlfriend comes over... I have 2 sisters, umpteen nieces/nephews and a couple dozen cousins. Not making any statement about THIS guy, but the details of the story are far to sparse to draw any real conclusions. I remember this time my GF flipped out (understandably) at me when she saw me hugging another girl. Turns out it was one of my cousins.
moonfire: WTF? I have three male cousins and one female, and I hug them all. Why the hell not? Just because you might not be close enough with your cousins to hug them doesn't mean we all aren't. I hug male friends, too. Besides, who said anything about hugging their cousin OFTEN?
You should type up a thing that looks like a lab test and barge in on them waving the paper and crying. The paper would indicate that you had some horrible STD. (Don't forget to mention that you've been faithful and he's the ONLY person who could have given it to you.)