By OnlyIfYouLoveMe - 23/11/2009 05:12 - United States
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By OnlyIfYouLoveMe - 23/11/2009 05:12 - United States
thanx guys! 8D he is a jerk, glad you agree. And to RyeBreadBoy, I do have smart views on politics ( wow that sentence does not sound right, oh well). I'm just as smart as you, and I have intellegent ideas.
#4 summed it up ^^ I certainly hope you went home with him and had sex, then made dinner, the laundry and the ironing, rubbed his back; just to make sure you feel like a real woman. And don't you dare have another 'thought' out loud like that. Know your place.
At #10: Agreed. He was just speaking his mind after all. Maybe you people who call him names like "sexist" and "bigot" need to be more open minded. You should accept all peoples views.
Yeah...I'm pretty sure #10 was being sarcastic. So. You know.
YDI for being so pathetic that you need to result to blind dates.
narrow-minded people like you are the reason other people kill other people...lol....what a jackass
i think you mean "resort", *******.
I think you mean "resort." Try not to let your lack of language skills show when you call someone else "pathetic."
Yeah me too. why do thiey think they are better. they should know they are better
Generaly sexist women are worse than sexist men. I think its because most sexist women are idiots as well, while most sexist men(I know at least) are just tired of putting up with idiotic sexist women
all bitches rightly bow down to men, that is their role. if the man so wishes it, he shall then throatfuck her to give her another purpose in life. moral of the story: females are there to do the bidding of the superior males. YDI for being a female. ****
I pointedly disagree, 18. What an ass. Sure you don't need us to tell you to stay away from him.
He's right now stop pretending like you know politics, give him a ********, and make him a sammich!!!
what a ******* basterd
Shut the **** up. a person's gender does not determine their knowledge. If they like shoe shopping (a stereo type) or not, who the **** cares!?
awww. rly? :( that sucks
They say there are two things you should never discuss on a first date: politics and religion. Nothing gets people riled up more. Maybe next time wait awhile. I agree, this guy was a douche, but what if next time you bring up your views and piss off someone you genuinely like? If he hasn't had a chance to get to know you yet, he might not overlook your differing opinions and give it a shot.
This is probably normally true, but she was probably lucky that she did in this case, or she might've spent the whole date without realising what a prick he was. Now she knows not to waste her time with him.
Actually, it's a pretty good idea to discuss politics and religion on the first date. Politics and religion can really significant parts of a person's life, so it's an important part of getting to know someone. In this case, the OP learned that her date was really a total asshole. Better to learn these things sooner than later.
#20 is right. how can you know whether you want to date someone without knowing their stance on such important issues?
totally agree , i write in the newspaper of my university , i was discussing about politics with my ex- crush when i found out that his ideas is totally the opposite of mine it kinda broke my heart , but knowing that sooner would helped me !!!! going with someone with out know about their ideas donot seem right its like have sex with someone without telling him u have aids or sth
Actually, discussing religion and politics is always a bad idea on a first date. Not only does it ruin the evening, but there's more to people than that. I mean, maybe it's something you really care about.. One of you is perfectly fine with abortion, and the other stands outside clinics and yells at people.. But let's save that for the 2nd date
The issue with going out with someone who does not share your religious, and perhaps political (although not as big a deal as religious) beliefs has nothing to do with equality. It has to do with compatibility. How to raise the kids is the biggest issue, But even if kids aren't involved, it can prove to be problematic. I am friends with an atheist but I wouldn't go out with him simply because he thinks the whole idea of God is ridiculous. As a friend, I can handle that. As more than a friend, every time he ridicules the very idea of which I decide to base my life around, even if his intention isn't to ridicule me, well... problematic.
It's not necessarily that they have to share the same beliefs as you. They at least have to have respect for you and your beliefs. Let's take the case of a pro-choice man dating a pro-life woman. If he can respect that she's not going to get an abortion (which he should if he's actually pro-CHOICE), then they could make it work out fine even though their highly polarizing beliefs differ.
Well, the problem with it being a YDI because she is on a blind date is because she was set up by SOMEONE to go out with him, most likely someone she knows. What kind of person would set up a friend/family member with a complete jerk like this? This is one of the reasons I refuse to EVER go on a blind date. I don't care enough for dating to not want to be in control of who I'm going out with.
How can you make a comparison to having aids and not telling your sexual partner? That is just sick. Having a different view on religion is not endangering you.
Who said anything about someone being better or worse with religions? They're simply saying that if two people base their lives off conflicting views, then they might not be compatible. Just like political views. Or a dumbass who thinks women are stupid and an educated independent woman in this case.
I cringe at the thought of all the sexist jokes that are going to come. Anyway, I hope you didn't ACTUALLY go home and have sex with him! What a jerk. Anyway, it is the risk you take when you choose to go on a blind date. It's actually probably a good thing you found this out on the FIRST date.
Punch his lights out!
Urgh, some men just can't cope with the idea that sometimes women are smarter than them
Maybe she wasn't smarter than him. Just saying. Her viewpoint could've been completely idiotic. That doesn't justify his response in any way, but it's just as likely that she's politically ignorant as it is that she's the next James Carville.
Urgh, some women just can't cope with the idea that sometimes men are smarter than them.
sometimes woman are more smart than men*
That guy is a total git. He deserves to be shot in the nuts. I hope you left pretty quick after he said that.
well you obviously should of kept your stupid female mouth closed and had sex with him... deuuheuhe
Of?
Omg I feel like getting a knife, and killing him. I hate these horny closed-minded jerks.
A little joke. Hope you got it.
That isn't a joke. If your dumb female mind can't make a joke, don't try. That was much more of a threat actually. If he were to be knifed to death today, guess who they'd come after?
well, aren't you dumber?
Really MK1029? You honestly believe they'd look at this guy's history, see he had one failed first date with the OP, track the OP's computer usage, find her post on this site, read the comments, find chellinha's, then track her IP address to her home and "come after" her? You honestly believe this, and yet you have the gall to call someone else "dumb" (not to mention your mentioning her gender for absolutely no reason other than to establish the fact that you're sexist as well as a retarded asshole)? Yeah. Okay.
That's United States of America to you.
Yeah, sexism and ignorance don't happen anywhere else. Ass.
Because we're far worse than countries that make women hide their bodies or risk punishment. Yes, we're awful.
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Urgh, some men just can't cope with the idea that sometimes women are smarter than them
They say there are two things you should never discuss on a first date: politics and religion. Nothing gets people riled up more. Maybe next time wait awhile. I agree, this guy was a douche, but what if next time you bring up your views and piss off someone you genuinely like? If he hasn't had a chance to get to know you yet, he might not overlook your differing opinions and give it a shot.