By ForeverAlone - 06/03/2013 22:28 - United States - O Fallon
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Show it anywayWhat did she do wrong? Unless she was out to steal OPs boyfriend, in the end, it's not really the girls fault.
The only one who doesn't deserve anything is OPs ex-boyfriend
Maybe you are up for a threesome... just joking. How it could happen that you allowed her to comfort you? To me this sounds like she is a back-stabbing bitch.
Who says the boyfriend cheated? Maybe he met another girl and fell for her. He then broke it off with his current gf so that he wouldn't be cheating on her. Maybe this new girl is such a nice person she tried to comfort the old gf. You never know the full story with fmls.
Honestly, you're supposed to go for what makes you happy. In this situation, I feel no one is truly in the wrong. If you are not married or engaged, you should follow your heart. This girl probably feels really empathetic toward the OP, and having strong feelings toward OP's ex doesn't make her a bad person. You can't help who you love. If you need someone to help you through a tough time, you'll take comfort where you can find it. It definitely must feel like a huge slap in the face for her though. It's a complicated situation no matter which point of view you're looking at it from.
Mehhh... you dont need either if them, find better people, as those two used you.
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She might not have know about OP until the the break up. So she wouldn't have known she was cheating.
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:( :/ :| :) :D I did it! I turned my frown upside down!
Well that is probably the worst person to be kind to you. Most likely one of those people who are like "awh I'm sorry that happened" and they just bring it up to rub it in your face. You can do better OP! Goodluck!
Hey, that's a potential friend you got there. Cheer up! :D
What a bitch! Go kick her ass.
She was nice enough to comfort OP. doesn't sound like a bitch to me. The other woman is not always the bad person.
Sounds like soon the two of you will be best friends being pissed off at a third girl together.
He's not worth it - don't waste your time or feelings on the ass. You deserve better, you will find better. I'm sorry you have to go through this though :(
God, you just used every breakup cliche in the book.
I realized that only after I sent it. Dangers of posting anything to the Internet—actually, dangers of using your phone—after 2 am!
She seems nice..
good to see that your positive
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Sounds like soon the two of you will be best friends being pissed off at a third girl together.
The same thing kind of happened to me. The girl my boyfriend cheated on me with had to train me at my new job. When I found out, and confronted her, she was totally disgusted with him and embarassed of herself even though she didn't really do anything wrong. She and I ended up going shopping together pretty often. Moral of the story is: The "other woman" often is pretty much blameless and can easily be a great person, don't villainize her :)